Trading Ashes for Beauty

ABCs of Thanksgiving!!

2011-11-24T22:15:00.001-05:00

Happy Thanksgiving…….hope it has been a wonderful day with family and friends – as well as, at least, a bit of time to reflect on all our blessings!! Just for fun, I’ve listed some of mine as the ABCs of gratitude:)

A heart so thankful for:

A – answers to prayers….there have been many this year – big and “small” but, most recently, a huge answer to praise Him for….when a MRI showed that my cancer was NOT out of remission despite what the doctor had thought!

B – Bible (and Bible studies this year)

C – my children….how special it has been having them both close to home again!

D – doggie kisses….actually the literal kisses are not my favorite but the unconditional love of my faithful pup(s) is precious!

E – eternity!

F – friends….new ones, long-time ones, bloggy friends – ALL of them make my life extra special….the cherry on top of each day!

G – grandchildren:) They call ‘em “grand” for a reason!!

H – Hubbie….truly, what would my life be without him to share it along side me?!?

I – iced tea – and, in particular, Chick Fil-A unsweet tea! Enough said.

J – job…I love going to work:)

K – kitchen….really, I so enjoy my (almost still new) home but the kitchen is just that room where we spend a lot of time and enjoy a lot of life

L – laugh lines….no doubt, wrinkles are inevitable but if you have to have those lines on your face, at least make them laugh lines – from a life lived happy:)

M – memories!!!

N – neighbors – ours are really nice…yeah.

O – oncologist…once cancer becomes a part of your life, you truly appreciate an oncologist who is brilliant yet personal and compassionate – and, mine is

P – Pastor (and his family, my Preacher’s wife)……what a blessing they both are

Q – quiet time – those first moments of the day where I can meet with God….and He waits to meet with me!

R – reality of Heaven – and a real and wonderful reunion one day. Many days it is, literally, what keeps me moving.

S – Scott….the best brother ever!

T – (being) Tyler’s Mommy – I will forever be grateful!!!

U – undeserved favor….there really are just too many blessings to list – and I don’t deserve a one of them

V – VA benefits – allowing my Airman to go to college without any debt!

W – WWC (Women With Compassion) group…that I have the privilege to lead and work along side of – such a sweet spirited group of ladies

X – x-ray technology – like pet scans, CT scans and, even, MRIs (see above)!

Y – yard…Hubbie love our little space and the chance to putter together in order to create a space that not only says home but also says “Welcome”!

Z – I.have.no.idea. Truly….but you get the idea. From A to Y(ha!) I am so blessed with much to be thankful for this Thanksgiving season!! Hope you have, too!

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Getting the Scales Off My Mind

2011-11-21T22:27:00.001-05:00

Well, just for the record…over the past weekend I had absolutely ZERO yummy coffee treats flavored with the holidays from my favorite coffee shop! Not a buy one, get one free. Not any one. What a disappointment.

But don’t feel (too) bad for me. Really. I was going over the last couple days in my head – in search of something of any value whatsoever to blog about – and I noticed a very real, and somewhat concerning, theme….

Just about every day involved meeting my husband, or a girlfriend, or a group of girls for – lunch, coffee, a quick bite to eat…..no matter how you phrase…..FOOD! And I truly stand by the scale each morning and act as if I have no idea why this weight just won’t come off. I’ve even been known to moan the words, “but I try so hard.”

Oh, please.

Nevetheless, I did – indeed – meet a group of friends the other day for some shopping…and, yes, lunch. We went to a new restaurant (or one I’ve never been to) and it is definitely a new favorite! Can’t wait to go back. I had pumpkin ravioli. Devine. I even remembered to snap a few pictures…and then forgot to post them.

This is our group and the restaurant was Claire’s At the Depot. Yep, in a converted train depot. So super charming inside…

My sweet girlfriend. I am so thankful for sweet friends!

Things like this could be part of the explanation for the never changing scale. I don’t know for sure but I’m just sayin’

But this is definitely not the week to be obsessing about numbers on the scale. Looking forward to reading about everyone’s wonderful meals – and special times with your family and friends. I do plan to get one more post in this week:) but let me start early wishing all my blog friends a beautiful Thanksgiving.

My goodness – there are just so many cute ideas out there for making the holiday special…..just loved this one:) Can’t wait to see your idea!

Just So You Know....

2011-11-18T10:01:00.005-05:00

"Buy a holiday drink at Starbucks between 11/17/10 and 11/20/10 from 2-5pm and you’ll get another one for free." As in...free! Woo Hoo!! I have visions of Peppermint Mocha,Caramel Brulée Latte and Gingerbread Latte dancing in my head!!

A Sweet Treat to Make

2011-11-17T20:02:00.001-05:00

I love to plan. I like to organize too. But I really, really like to plan. I like to plan my day and make all my errands organized to be done most efficiently and by priority. Give me a day trip or other quick get away to plan and I’m one happy camper. But give me “an event”…and I’m over the moon.

Go figure. But its true.

Thanksgiving is planned – and seems to be a day that everyone is looking forward to…which is a success all by itself! More about Thanksgiving later – as in next week:)

But I am also planning our church’s annual ladies’ shopping trip – a bus trip for…well, for shopping! and fun. oh, and food of course! The trip down to Richmond on Monday was to finalize the restaurant where we will have dinner. Cute find – and I’m excited about that part.

This week, some friends came over and we made the “favors”, if you will. The ladies always get a treat to take home…..a thanks for coming as well as reminder of the fun day! This year, we made OREO cookie pops.

Oh my. They were (almost) too super easy (even I could do it!) but looks so “sweet” – pun intended! – and pretty when you are done. They would be great to share in a child’s classroom, with your Bible study group, MOPS group, etc. or even with your neighbors.

I used Double Stuff Oreos and white chocolate melting disks from Michaels. Simply separate the cookies and use a dab of melted chocolate (which I simply melted in the microwave) to hold a stick on the cookie crème and then re-sandwich the Oreo together.

Then dip in the melted chocolate and lay on wax paper to cool. While the chocolate is still soft, sprinkle with colored sprinkles or crushed peppermint candies – or whatever you prefer.

The bags, which already had the ribbon attached, I also found at Michaels. You could also decorate yours with colored ribbon, etc. Truly, so easy.

All in a basket and ready to go!! I really think I need to hide these – cause we don’t go for almost two weeks!!

No Point to This–Really

2011-11-15T22:19:00.001-05:00

I really, really need to find more time…no, make more time to post. Actually I just need to do it! “Making more time” seems to be a recurring, ahem, excuse of mine lately – and not just with posting on the blog. But that is totally a subject for another day….

Because, frankly, I am surprised how often I find myself thinking…”oh, I have got to post this….” and then I don’t. I then I forget (because my brain is totally incapable of storing information, important or trivial, for more than 24 hours – tops.) And some of this stuff is stuff I’d actually like to remember one day:)

For instance….

** My son – the former airman….who, btw, is 21! – and I were on a mini road trip yesterday. We both needed to make a trip down to Richmond, our illustrious capital, about an hour and half from home. No need to go alone…we made a day of it and had a great time together. We love to talk and get into good conversations! I always enjoy these talks – especially since Jordan actually values my opinion…so nice for a mama. Anyhoo, we had been chatting and thinking – and chatting then reflecting. When, clearly out of the blue, my son (did I mention he is 21), says quite seriously

“I really miss being young.”

Really.

Welcome to my world.

** or the other day at church, a few folks were discussing a parenting book – some thought it was totally a “no-go” (for lack of a better word) while others really liked it. One mother – whose only daughter is TEN MONTHS – and apparently was one who likes the book said

“Well, we’ve raised Sarah with that book and she is a very good girl….”

RAISED Sarah?? Check back with me in 13-15 years and we will consider your opinion on child-rearing then.

**and just one more story. Not sure if this one is to make you smile or well – you decide. Remember the two sets of candle holders I bought at my favorite home store? So, I went to return one pair. Quick. Easy. Right?

Not for all of us. My refund was to be $20.98 in cash. After the drawer opens, the cashier pulls out a twenty and begins to count some quarters. I (like a goof) said, “Can I just give two cents instead?”

Looking a bit puzzled, she said, “Sure.”

She drops my two pennies in the drawer – and begins to count the quarters again. (??) I said, “No, with the two cents…you just give me a dollar instead.”

Total deer in the headlights look. But she shakes her head ok and then pulls out a dollar – and puts my twenty BACK in the drawer. She hands me one dollar. (I hope you are as dumbfounded as me at this point.)

With much more patience than I was actually feeling, I told her – “I get the twenty, too!” I am not exaggerating when I say she was one hundred percent lost. But she said “okay” and handed me the twenty. (Good thing I didn’t ask for that there fifty, too!!)

I don’t know but this whole new math thing still has some serious kinks to be worked out. Totally reminds me, last night at the store I overheard a young guy (about eight, I guess) tell his mom – while they were looking at price tags, etc. “Mom, I know this one….seven plus zero equals 70”!!

Please let that be a joke. But she congratulated him. “Good job, son.”

So, really, this post served very little purpose – except, perhaps, to give you a glimpse inside my brain. Which can, indeed, be a bit scary.

Blessed Beyond Measure

2011-11-08T21:50:00.001-05:00

Yesterday was Monday and I try to post on Mondays. But, honestly, no matter how hard I tried I could not think of anything to say. No doubt, it is a good thing Hubbie doesn’t read the blog as he would either – 1…having a horribly good laugh or 2….be out on the floor flabberghast! Me – nothing to say??

Well, nothing for a blog, I suppose. Sure, the weather has been gorgeous and the leaves are so pretty right about now.

But, really just how much can you blog about the weather? Some days I just like to READ blogs:)

and today was Tuesday’s Question on Lois’ blog…..

Use one word to finish this phrase: God is

and, yes, she emphasized one word. There were so many good answers – especially faithful – but I think I’m going with

God is Good

I heard this song for the first time – to me, at least, last week! Loved it! I’m told it is “an oldie but goodie” but I’d never heard it. This is just the chorus…..

I have been blessed, God's so good to me, precious are His thoughts of you and me. No way I could count them there's not enough time, so I'll just thank Him for being so kind. God has been good, so good. I have been blessed.

Yes, indeed. Happy Tuesday, friends.

Happy Friday

2011-11-04T11:04:00.001-04:00

I so appreciate everyone’s opinion on the candleholders. Looks like the tall ones have it:) There was one vote for the short – oh, and then Hubbie’s vote. Why, oh why do I even ask?? He, of course, picked “short”! How am I to tell him he was outvoted by all my bloggy friends?!?!

I am off to Home Goods and hopefully will have a finished table this weekend. But, first, its time for a haircut.

New salon. New stylist.

You just never know for sure…..

What fun plans do you have for the weekend? And, by the way, did you happen to read the question of the week at Walking on Sunshine?? It was a good one to get you thinkin…and there were some good answers. But, after thinking about it some more – I’m so changing mine. Even told Hubbie…after I’m gone…so everyone will know I was right, just tell ‘em I said it was

“Totally the Tomatoes!!”

A “Sweet” Find–and Your Opinion, Please

2011-11-02T10:41:00.001-04:00

I had a few extra minutes to spare before heading to work the other evening, so I ran into one of my favorite spots to browse – Home Goods! Gotta love it:) I really do enjoy just the browsing…but finding a little treasure to take home – even sweeter!

Some new mugs for Hubbie and me….

They should add a little smile to our morning fall flavored lattes! They even have little owls hidden inside:)

But even “sweeter”…….I found these!!

Oh, indeed. Belgian Chocolate. Drenched. Oreo Cookies. What more could there be to love!!?? Except, maybe, the individual polka-dot wrapping. Sweet.

And, I also found some candle holders to get my dining room table a bit more ready for Thanksgiving. I could not decide on the shorter ones or the taller ones. So, naturally, I bought both. The plan was to decide which ones I liked better and then return one set. Only…I can’t seem to make a decision.

So, what do you think???

Taller ones?? or shorter?? And, yes, there will be some other things on the table but just looking at the candles for now. Always love your thoughts -

Thankfully, the snow did not last!

2011-10-31T12:50:00.001-04:00

Another woman’s daybook entry for today….

Outside my window…there is huge improvement over the weekend. When the weatherman last week hinted at snow for this past weekend, I scoffed. Well, I guess the joke was on me. It did, indeed, snow…and sleet, and rain, with some freezing rain and then more snow. We did not have accumulation but just down the road (no joke) they had a couple inches. In my mind, October is WAY too early for snow!

I am thinking….about the holidays. (and I’m okay with snow on Christmas!!)

I am thankful….for November almost being here – just one more day! Not sure why but October seems to have been long and I’m looking to “that clean slate feeling” that comes with flipping the calendar:)

I am wearing….house-cleaning clothes – which basically means nothin’ too pretty and I haven’t even done my hair yet! But I have been productive this morning – have both the refrig and the pantry completely cleaned and reorganized.

I am remembering…..the first days of Tyler’s diagnosis – all the tests and “urgent” doctor appointments and being hurled into a whole new “world” that was so foreign to us…we really did not know to be terrified. Now when I look back – I do know. I don’t often “go back”….but, lately, I have.

I am going….to work tonight – at the store. Why the retail world starts Christmas so early is beyond me?? It is insanity in our store but I have noticed that not a soul is buying the Christmas merchandise – they are just trying to navigate around it to find one simple card! Trust me…it is that bad.

I am reading…..nothing really. Need to start reading some new recipe ideas to get my brain in gear for holiday cooking and menus.

I am hoping….to keep my weight in check and under control over the next two months.

On my mind…..Tyler. My own health. Tyler. A young man (a relative of a friend at church) named Andrew who recently arrived at Bethesda after being severely injured in Afghanistan (a triple amputee). Oh, and Tyler.

From the kitchen….corn chowder!

Around the house….it is quiet except for the Smoky Mountain Hymns playing through the stereo. Some days I just “need” some mountain music:)

Plans for the week…other than work:) there is Bible study on Tuesday – studying God’s promises! Wednesday the carpets are getting cleaned – hooray! And, HOPEFULLY, we can take a day trip on Saturday…we will see if that one comes together.

~~One~~ Some of my favorite things: flannel sheets, candles that smell like coffee, sugar free chocolate candy – especially Russell Stover, Christmas music (no, I haven’t started it…..yet!) and lunch dates with a girlfriend.

Counting Blessings

2011-10-28T15:15:00.001-04:00

Well, after a week like this past week – you know one of THOSE weeks:) – some times it is best to simply count your blessings!…and enjoy a little photo love of the J-man!!

Thankful for:

**autumn color – the trees have fully changed into their fall colors and look so pretty

**white pumpkins – still love the orange ones but something about the white ones are so pretty among all the other pumpkins and gourds

**faithful, praying friends

**email – I do love to send a written note now and then, but it is amazing and wonderful to be able to so quickly share news and connect with friends and loved ones when you need them

**sweet co-workers

**sharing morning coffee with my hubbie to start our day

**pumpkin bread…or pumpkin pancakes…or pumpkin donuts:)

**compassionate doctors

**Rascal

**sweet comments – all comments! – from my blogging friends

**crock-pot meals – gotta love whoever invented the Crock Pot!!

**creating the prefect word on Words with Friends – on a TW spot….sometimes, it’s the little things!

**the weekend (and time to catch up with my blogs!)

AND -

I mean, really, what’s not to love!! Next time: some Riley shots!!

A Love Note from God

2011-10-26T10:39:00.001-04:00

Well, I will admit I’m still pretty much in the dark about pinning. Apparently, you either (really) love it…or, more of you than I thought, you just aren’t ready – or willing – to take on another on-line obsession! The verdict is still out for me. Blogging just might be enough for me (at least, for now……)

I have always had a desire to use my blog in order to honor the Lord…and certainly to give Him praise whenever I can! I am not sure I do that adequately but it certainly is my heart’s desire.

Often it is challenging to give praise specifically – because I am not able (or wanting) to discuss, specifically, “the need” before the praise…if that makes sense. However, God has been so good to me this week. I am humbled – and grateful.

It has been a difficult past few days for me (weeks, actually). While seeking God’s face and waiting for His answers, I have determined to learn more about Him….and the things He has shown me have been precious. I wish each of you lived close by and I could share my heart with you for awhile over a cup of coffee!

But let me share one quick story. I was headed to work on Monday evening. It had been a busy day – that included another doctor’s visit – and I had lots of things mulling through my mind. It was a beautiful day, mind you. Sunny, bright and lovely.

And there – right in front of me was one of the clearest – and broadest – rainbows I have seen in a VERY long time! No clouds. No rain. But a rainbow, indeed. It was amazing.

I started looking at some of the other drivers, curious to know if they were amazed and awed but this “random” rainbow. No one was even acting like they noticed it. How could they not – it was beautiful. And large!

I actually tried to take a picture…as in while I was driving…with my cell phone…without my glasses! Oh brother. Please tell me you can see that rainbow:) Its just above the trees. Bad photography aside, that rainbow was a true gift from God. He could not have said any clearer, “Jennifer…I love you!”

God is faithful. God is in control. God cares about me.

Have you ever heard the old gospel song, “God Put a Rainbow in the Cloud”?? It has been in my head ever since. Literally. If we ever have a chance to share some coffee, I’ll sing a few choruses for you!

God put a rainbow in the cloud
(God put a rainbow in the cloud)
Well, it looked like the sun wouldn't shine anymore
God put a rainbow in the cloud

Are you Pinning???

2011-10-24T11:19:00.001-04:00

Honestly, just a short post today…..

Happy Monday!! and another quick question (thanks for all the feed back on Friday – apparently I’m actually in the majority with blogs unread by the Hubbies! Who knew??) So, for today, I would really love to know…

What is this whole Pinterest craze?? and do you “pin”?? and that’s about all I know. I really don’t understand how it works. If I were to start making boards(??)…can everyone else see my boards? Just curious. And I suppose you need an invitation to start?? Don’t totally get that but, then again, I’m a bit in the dark with the whole thing.

The one thing I do know – I really enjoying looking at other’s boards – HA! Especially the decorating ideas and party ideas. There are so many cute ideas and talented people out there!!

So – please tell me what you think! Love your thoughts:)

You Gotta Love ‘Im

2011-10-21T11:55:00.001-04:00

The other day Lois had an interesting question – and conversation to follow – on her blog about comments. Today, I have a question: does your hubbie read your blog?? Mine, does not.

I used to think it would be so sweet if he anxiously awaited for my posts each morning – eager to know what was on my mind. But that so never happened….and, I’ll admit, there was a time (or two) that I was miffed. Until I asked him about it. His answer was something along the lines of…”why would I read your blog??? Isn’t that a bunch of you and your friends discussing recipes, decorating and stuff??”

Well, sorta. Kinda. You would have to totally know my sweetie to appreciate his thinkin’ that blog reading is akin to reading “Good Housekeeping” or joining me for Ladies Day Out at the mall. But, I totally got him – and his point. And now I am blissfully fine with enjoying the blog world all by myself:)

Now that does not keep me from updating him on all the cool things I read/learn/discover while enjoying my blog time. And I even tell him about some of my (wittier) posts – ha ha! For instance, I was telling him about my list of things I do not do….and the fact that there are more than just a couple of us who do not eat tomatoes! I’m not sure he believes me as he does love himself a good tomato!

Anyhoo, we were quick to list several things he does NOT do. So,

just for public record…….In addition to NOT reading my blog, he -

- does not text….nor does he have any desire to ever learn (sorry, kids, I have done everything to try and change this but it ain’t happenin!)

- does not go over the speed limit (at all. ever.) …..this one just might put me over the edge one day!

- does not eat tuna casserole (again…at all. ever.) He is good sport about just anything I serve him but the whole tuna casserole – absolutely not.

- does not miss his afternoon nap…..but he looks good:) and is really healthy so it must be workin’ for him!

- does not share food or drink. Too funny – but if I take a bite of food off his plate, he’ll just give me the rest of it. He’s done. When the kids were little, he was the same way if they drank out of his straw, etc. Go figure. But we did go to Panera the other night and “shared” a Pick Two. I didn’t really consider it sharing as the two things came on two separate plates but it was a big step for him!!

I’ll admit – this post will probably only amuse my family…but hopefully all “my blog girlfriends” have a wonderful weekend, too!!

Sweet Smellin’

2011-10-19T22:36:00.001-04:00

I try to post Monday, Wednesday and Friday…and here it is 10:00PM (bedtime!!) on Wednesday….better late than never, right?! I don’t feel totally terrible about getting on the computer late as today was a very productive day!

Hubbie was home today and we cleaned house…deep-cleaned…all day! Do I love cleaning? No. But how much nicer it is when we are able to work on the big projects together – and I totally DO love the finished work! Is it just me…or do you just feel good when the house looks nice. And the smell:) That sweet mixture of Murphy’s Oil, Pledge, Windex and just a bit of bleach…..makes me swoon!!

While I was dusting – and enjoying the clean scents around the house – Ephesians 5:2 came to mind:

“….Christ…hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling savour.”

Christ’s obedience to become our saviour was a sweet-smelling sacrifice to God. How wonderful smells really are!!

Perhaps, just like the smell of my clean house makes me feel happy…the sweet smelling savour, or scent, of my obedience is pleasing to my heavenly Father. I sure hope so. I want the prayer of my heart to be for Him to “create in me a clean heart” that is quick to hear His voice and willing to obey. Then that the aroma of obedience will waft Heavenward……

Now, I suppose there is such a thing as” too much of a good thing”. On the way to church this evening, we stopped by the store and bought some Simple Green. We have heard from several people how wonderful this stuff is at getting all kinds of stains out – from clothes, carpets, etc. etc. Even a random lady in the store who saw us buying it told us that Simple Green was great stuff! Wonderful.

Unbeknownst to us, that very bottle of Simple Green, which apparently did not have its lid on correctly, leaked out all over the back floorboard of our car on the way to church. I noticed it when I grabbed my Bible bag and it was soaked…as was my Bible and all the other things in the bag. Not happy.

Not even happy with the “aroma”…..or the highly concentrated scent of “fresh pine forest” that was covering everything I brought into church. It was Simple Green overdose. I just sat through the service hoping everyone thought the cleaning lady (who was sitting right behind!) did an exceptional job this week!!

I Do Not Do

2011-10-17T05:16:00.000-04:00

I was reading a post over at the Pennington Point – where Lisa writes and a blog I really enjoy – and she had a post of Ten Things She Does Not Do. Then I started to think of the ten things I do not do…and things actually started coming to my. As in, thinking right on the spot, which is not usually the norm for me. (Put my brain on the spot and it tends to go blank….as in I can’t even list the names and birth dates of my children)! So, just for fun – and to capture my moment of instant thinking, I thought I would post my own little list of……

Ten Things I Do Not Do (in total random order):

1 – I do not eat tomatoes. Yes, I know I have mentioned it already a time, or ten, but just for the record…..Blech!! Lisa was nice enough to say if she is offered tomatoes (she doesn’t like them either….yeah there are two of us!) at someone’s home, she is polite enough to eat them. Hmmm. I very politely pass, “No thank you.” I hope that counts.

2 – I do not go to the movies. Just a personal conviction here against Hollywood garbage. Yes, I suppose there are a couple (well, maybe one) “good” movies out there but, for me, it is best to just draw the line. No movies.

3 – I do not eat fast food. I know what you’re thinking…..that I LOVE (yes, love) Chick Fil-A. But when I think of fast food, I think greasy! hamburgers (served with sugary sodas). Yuck. Since there is not a burger to be found in my favorite chicken spot – I feel totally justified in enjoying each and every visit to Chick Fil-A (and there are many!) and claiming my motto of “no fast food”! I guess I make my own rules?!?

4 – I do not do Facebook. We discussed this one just recently but it fits the list so I mention it again.

5 – I do not “do” bumper stickers. No real conviction here –just something I learned from my dad. He hated said stickers. I never really knew why but he certainly passed his opinion on to me. I’ll admit – most bumper stickers are simply rude. Or dumb. But, even if I could find a good one, I would give one minute’s thought to putting it on my car. I know Dad would haunt me from the grave – literally. Funny thing – my own kids now think the same.

6 – I do not shop at Walmart. Probably best if I just keep going here….

7 – I do not like winter. You will, no doubt, here that sentiment here again 20 or 30 times over the next coming months:(

8 – I do not leave the house without makeup. This is not a boastful pride thing – I just try to look decent and in order when I go out of the house. Actually, I wear some makeup even at home – its part of my routine just like washing my hair and brushing my teeth. The “au naturelle” look on me is just plain scary – seriously, folks. Sweet story here: several years ago when I went through cancer the first time, at the end of my chemo treatments, I got sick. Really sick. In an attempt to avoid being hospitalized, I had to get up each morning and go into my doctor’s office for full days of monitoring and IV meds. The hardest part of this plan was the getting up each morning! My sweet daughter (who would have been about 15 at the time) would get up and do my makeup for me before I left for the doctor…..just to help me not feel so crummy and depressed. That labor of love, alone, was probably the best medicine ever!!

9 – I do not exercise. Now, this one is a problem. I thought I should include this one just for myself. Most of this list, I’m ok with…but, I’ll admit, some “I do not dos” need a change.

10 – I do not celebrate Halloween. I’m not really sure why anyone who claims to be a Christian would….although I know more than few who do – and I love you anyways! Just thought I would end here as October is fast coming to an end – now my opinion is out there – and I won’t mention it again!

Happy Monday, friends!! BTW, what is it that you do not do???

On Boots, Getting Lost in the Corn and Butter

2011-10-14T22:15:00.000-04:00

Five for Friday….
that’s five random thoughts that have absolutely nothing to do with each other but just my thoughts for the week – which, in other words, could mean a glimpse inside my head….scary to be sure!! Nevertheless, here goes:

1 – on the way home from work on Thursday evening, I was in the single worst storm I, personally, have ever witnessed! It was insane. The rain was so hard that I cannot even think of words to describe it. The hail was pounded by car so hard it was completely deafening. Add to that – out of control wind (yes, a few tornadoes touched down in our area), lightning, thunder….and it was so powerful, and so awe-striking – not to mention, just a bit terrifying!
Right before the hail started, a guy on his motorcycle passed me. His motorcycle. There really was no place for him to stop so I’m sure he was just trying to get home – or get anywhere! – but he had to be in pure misery. I felt terrible for him.
On the other hand, earlier (on the way TO work)…it was not storming but it was rainy and nasty…and the lawn guy was cutting the grass in the next neighborhood. Did not feel sorry for him – just thought he was a nut!

2 – as if Pumpkin Spice bagels alone did not completely excite my taste buds……I recently discovered this:

Have you tried this cinnamon butter? DIVINE. Just about anything you can imagine that tastes wonderful with butter…this would only make it most wonderful. I can’t wait to put some on a fresh baked sweet potato. Have mercy.

3 – Just one more thing to love about fall is all of the pumpkin patches, fall festivals and corn mazes. I really miss the fun field trips to the pumpkin patch when my kiddos were little. Corn mazes are not just kid fun, either!
But did you hear on the news (it made national news) about a lady and her two children that got lost in the corn maze – literally lost. They called 9-1-1- to get out. I’m sorry…but I could not help but laugh. I’m sure they were panicked and it may have been getting dark so it was, maybe, two parts scary. But, it was really just four parts funny.
Having been, many moons ago, a police dispatcher…I would have loved to have been the one who took that call. Truly, I do.

4 – In fashion news, the “hot” thing for this fall and winter season is, supposedly, boots! I have a bit of a love/hate relationship with boots. I LOVE the look of boots. I LOVE all the boots I see on the cute models in magazines and ads. I LOVE the idea of wearing a cute pair of boots (especially with my tights). However, I HATE how boots look on my (huge) feet. I HATE the way boots look on my legs. I HATE the way boots hurt my feet – always. And I HATE that boots do not immediately make me look cute and sassy like those models in the magazine.

Do you wear boots? I promise, I won’t hate.

5 – These are my two sweeties….waiting in the doctor’s office. Both were feeling under the weather – but are still just as cute as ever!!

Apples and Apps

2011-10-12T10:46:00.001-04:00

Happy Wednesday! Its grey and drizzly – but still a nice day here…how about in your neck of the woods? I can’t believe I didn’t get a post up on Monday. I was doing so well at posting regularly – Mon., Wed. and Fri. – and then, all day went by this past Monday, and I never got to the computer. At least, not to post…I do enjoy reading everyone’s posts, though. Fall always seems to bring a new energy to life…and everyone is busy with so many interesting hobbies, tasks, trips and such!

I had a fun weekend away this past weekend – I’m waiting on pictures in order to post about it. No, Rose, I have yet to find my camera (boo) but hurray for phones! Goodness, some cell phones take better pictures than my (missing) digital camera! My girlfriend was our official picture taker this weekend, which means the pictures will be much better than if I had been the appointed one…but I have to wait.

Speaking of phones (and I’m so on a rabbit trail here)…I heard there will soon be an app for your phone that will allow you to go in the grocery store….get your items….pay through your phone app….and done! Not even a need for a cash register. So bizarre to me. Actually the whole app explosion is way beyond me!! Way beyond.

So – how many apps do you have downloaded on your phone??

In other news……I’m just sharing a recipe today. I have been on apple overload. Honestly, I have enjoyed searching/reading/drooling over recipes online as much (almost) more than actually eating the tasty treats. But that is just me. And I’m just about appled-out!! Time to think pumpkin (and a little less sugar!)

This apple crisp was rather tasty but quite sweet. Would be nice for dessert if company was comin’ – that way not too much leftovers….just one yummy helping would be satisfying enough. After this crisp, I plan to make an apple cake today and, then, the apples should be done. Would not have minded more applesauce but….

It is what it is

So, today’s apple crisp:

1 quart peeled, cored, sliced apples

3/4 cup sugar (would so try Splenda)

1 tablespoon flour

1 teaspoon cinnamon

2 tablespoons lemon juice

Mix all together and pour into a lightly greased baking pan.

3/4 cup oatmeal

3/4 cup brown sugar

1/4 cup melted butter

1/4 teaspoon baking soda

Mix all together and sprinkle evenly over the apple slices. Bake at 375 for 45 minutes. Enjoy

Bailey

2011-10-07T05:13:00.001-04:00

Rumor has it that one of our dogs might be completely, beyond reason, spoiled…..

Just to lay that rumor to rest -

I don’t even know what to say. I read this quote…

A dog is the only thing on this earth that loves you more than he loves himself. Josh Billings

which is cute, but the more accurate saying around our house might be….

Properly trained, a man can be dog's best friend. – Cory Ford

Quick Kitchen Recap

2011-10-05T11:27:00.001-04:00

Just a quick post this morning….as, every time I get on the computer for “just ten minutes” my morning magically fades away and not a thing from the to-do list is even crossed off! It’s a mystery but avoiding the computer altogether does seem to help a bit!

I made applesauce on Monday – that was delicious. It was almost perfect…and would have been if I had vanilla. Any perfect applesauce has to have vanilla and, who knew I was out!! How does one run out of vanilla…..and not know it?! So, I guess Nittany apples were true to their word and great “for sauce”!!

Also made a new chicken recipe for dinner last night. It had chicken in it (I know, shocking) so it could not be bad but it was actually very tasty! Simply pound some chicken breasts flat, layer on top quartered mozzarella balls and sundried tomatoes, and then roll-up, secure with toothpicks, season and bake. Bake at 350 for 30-35 minutes.

It was a great plan – until I remembered that Monday night’s apple dumplings had bubbled over and left a HUGE buttery mess in the bottom of the oven….which burned into a horrific smoke cloud that continued to billow for forever! The dogs were panicked. The house smelled horrible. And I’ve just about all the burnt offerings for dinner jokes that I can tolerate!!

Goodness.

And in a cruel twist of fate………

I crawled – quite pathetically and unenthusiastically – back onto the diet wagon this week. I never did see the last diet all the way to the end and then, shockingly, I gained a few pounds back while on vacation. I am determined NOT to go there. And, so, I began again. And don’t you know…….

I found THESE in the grocery store!

WHAT??! Pumpkin Spice. in a bagel. Have mercy. (and yes that is my kitchen counter….I bought them. But I haven’t eaten one. yet)

Cox Farm

2011-10-03T12:17:00.001-04:00

Happy Monday, friends! How did you spend your weekend? Has fall settled in? It certainly has here – I cannot remember the last time we really enjoyed the sun….it has been hidden by grey, thick clouds. Every day. And most days are damp, drizzly and (rather) dreary. I don’t know how our northern west coast friends do it!

And did I mention chilly – really chilly? Really pushing my comfort zone. But we did use the fireplace this weekend. Love it! A Sunday afternoon nap in front of the fire is pure heaven!

Our plans for this past weekend had included plans to go to an apple orchard. Remember I had been looking forward to that trip with my girlfriends last week? Yep – rained out (and I was not very good at hiding my disappointment with that….sorry, girls.) So, Hubbie and I thought we would try again on Saturday. And, yep….drizzling and not pretty.

But not to be outdone…..we headed to a local farm where they have this out-of-control pumpkin patch and other related activities. It really was impressive. The parking lot was packed with cars (apparently the weather does not frustrate others like it does me)…but – as fun-lovin’ empty-nesters that we are….we told the parking attendant we were just there for the market and headed to the front of the parking lot next to the store! Beautiful.

Such a fun place – a fantastic place to savor the sights…the smells…and the tastes of fall!!

Lots of ORANGE

even an orange VW…..

We had a good time – although we couldn’t stay as long as we might have because we didn’t wear jackets. Why?? I don’t know.

They had plenty of apple varieties to choose from – some I had never heard of but we pick ourselves a peck!! and grabbed some (overpriced but delicious) bread and butter pickles, too! Apparently, you don’t HAVE to go to the orchard and pick ‘em yourself in order to have fun getting apples!!

So, this morning I am making applesauce from these:

Don’t know that I’ve heard about Nittany apples but supposedly they make good sauce!! I’ll let you know. It certainly smells delicious in here!! I’ve already made some apple dumplings and plan to make apple crunch and apple cake later this week! Oh, yum.

Hope you have a yummy week planned ahead!!

Day Trip–Middleburg

2011-09-29T21:59:00.001-04:00

So many thanks to everyone’s sweet birthday wishes to Emily. We had a nice day yesterday…celebrating Em! Among her gifts, she received a purse AND shoes – what more does a girl really need for a great birthday??!

So – now I am backtracking – to my day on Monday. I spent the day with a favorite friend in the not-terribly far away town of Middleburg. We always enjoy our day trips and Monday was a great day for a jaunt.

On our way out, we drove the town of Aldie – and just had to stop at Diamonds and Rust. This old house is filled and overflowing with every type of jewelry treasure and vintage clothes, as well. My favorite was a huge bucket of mismatched or odd pieces of jewelry – 3 for $10. Just digging through the pieces made me a little girl, again, going through my grandma’s jewelry box. So much fun.

The owner, Marsha, was a treasure herself. So much fun to chat with – I felt like I was “catching up” with an old friend…but we have never met before. We could have stayed much longer just visiting

But there were other treasures to be found……

This store was downtown Middleburg. Seriously, I was on sensory overload. When you walk into a store like this….just where do you start???

Honestly, I have a dishes addiction….and there were dishes everywhere!! All kinds of fun things –and even a great store called The Fun Shop that was filled with just about a little of everything!

Middleburg is quite the pet-friendly place. All businesses have water out front and offer treats for your puppy. (Uh, my puppy stayed at home.) There are also shops a plenty that cater to the horse crowd. Very much horse country…..

We went into one thrift store run by the local Humane Society. I always try to find something in these stores – just to buy something for the cause. The local girls in this particular store were a hoot. Decided to fill us in on all the local (and flavored) history and news. Oh the sordid lives of the rich and famous!!

We sat on this porch for lunch. Considering that 28 of the 30 days in September have been completely grey, cloudy and overcast – or drenched in rain – it was a great day on Monday. There was actual sunshine! And I always love a chance to eat outside.

Up on the hill (in this photo) was just the prettiest church….tried to snap a photo of it but you can’t appreciate it – just trust me, it was a beauty. Just like the whole day!

When was your last fun day trip??

I love you, Emily

2011-09-28T05:01:00.000-04:00

We interrupt this rambling blog of the various, sundry and somewhat exciting adventures of my week (I actually have pictures to share…but later) for a celebration – a birthday celebration!!

This adorable little peanut of a darlin’….

was born 23 years ago…immediately wrapping herself around each and every one of our little fingers!! She pretty much still calls the shots

Oh we have our moments just like most mamas and their girls, I suppose – but I hope she is reminded (especially) today how much she is loved!!

Happy Birthday, sweet Em!!

Its Been Good but Not Pretty

2011-09-23T14:29:00.001-04:00

I did a little (ok, rather loud) hurray!! today….because its fall and, for me, fall means tights!! I suppose I should have said something a bit more exciting – like, pumpkin lattes!! (which I did have this morning…oh yum!) – but I just do get excited when I can wear my tights again. Yes, tights are comfy and tights are super cute but, mostly, tights cover my ghostly white legs. Indeed.

I have people tell me often (not doubt to try and ease my pain) that “pale is in”….then I suppose I am IN –and “in like flynn” – but, in or not, I look pale and sickly. And when I go to the store for work, I wear a black skirt. Black skirt. Ice white legs. Not pretty. So, hurray for tights!

And just for the record…it has been raining all day. And when it is not raining, it is beyond humid. And I ran out of hair product. Like I said, not pretty. (Tonight, I am just letting the curls run amuck!)

However not pretty the week has been for me, it has been a good week. We are in the middle of our missions conference at church – definitely one of the highlights of the year. The sermons have been from Esther (for missions!) and have excellent. After service each evening, there is fellowship in the gym and games for the kids. The games center around the different countries represented by the missionaries and I am always amazed at the things they construct. This year, among other things, there is a three story Japanese pagoda. I, personally, am thrilled with the homemade cookies! And, tomorrow night is the international dinner!

This conference always instructs, convicts, impresses but also energizes and excites me. As overwhelming as it is to think of millions around the world who have never heard the gospel…and to truly contemplate the task before us – it is amazing, and even awing, to think that Christ would allow me to have a part in His plan.

Looking forward to a great weekend. And just so you know. If you ever want to insert a picture of tights for visual interest on your blog, don’t bother to google “cute tights” or anything remotely similar. There are some weird people on the the internet. Just fyi.

Happy Birthday, Bud!

2011-09-20T05:57:00.000-04:00

Today my Tyler would be 19 years old. 19. I find myself at a loss for words. There is such a huge difference between the almost 14 year old boy I remember so keenly and clearly and a 19 year old young man that I can only imagine…..

My heart wants to linger on all I imagine I have missed – then I remember these thoughts I wrote about four years ago. I have posted them on my blog before (about two years ago) but I share them again today as I reminder to myself. Yes, there is much I can only imagine but there is also MUCH that I have been blessed with -

And much I know for sure: there is no greater joy than being a mommy…and Tyler’s mommy at that! Tyler was loved. and Tyler loved his mama! This, too, I know – one day I will see Tyler again…and what a grand reunion that will be~~

The Luckiest Woman in the World

So often I am tempted to concentrate on all that I will miss-
You getting a driver’s license & your first car
Your first girlfriend & that first kiss
Where would you go to college?
Who would you marry?
When you took a job, what title would you carry?

But then, I stop and remind myself
I am the luckiest woman in the world!

I was the first one to caress your downy red head
with my cheek,The very first to cradle you and sing you to sleep. It was me you called for when you skinned a knee, when your dreams were scary or your feelings hurt –

I nursed ear infections and chicken pox and figured out how a Gameboy works! I listened to your Barney songs, your choir songs and
those special country music songs!

I watched you learn to ride a bike, taught you how to bake a cake and cheered too loudly with each new challenge you would take. We memorized Spelling words and memory verses and History dates to silly choruses.

When I really stop to think about it,
I am the luckiest woman in the world, because, you know -For fourteen years I was your mother and
Forever, and for always, I will be Tyler’s mom!!!

The Quick Vacation Recap

2011-09-19T12:20:00.001-04:00

We are back from vacation! It is always great to be home and, usually, I am anxious to be home and a bit ready for vacation to end…sometimes, I am even needing the proverbial “vacation from the vacation” but – not this time. What a wonderful week we had! Yes, it IS nice to sleep in my own bed but we came home relaxed, refreshed, FAT and full of great memories. Hubbie and I agreed this may have been one of our best vacations.

I have plenty of photos to sort through – read that HUNDREDS! thanks to our own personal event photographer….daughter, Erica who sent us home with two cds worth of pictures! But browsing through all the memories will have to wait – at least until the laundry is done! Our kids did a great job of holding down the fort while we were gone so not much to do there…but I do have to get my brain out of vacation mode.

So just a few photos I pulled off my phone this morning….

We stayed at the Dolphin – I know, doesn’t exactly look like what I think of when I think dolphin but an impressive roof top sculpture, nonetheless! Too bad these folks did not ask me to write an official review because it would be glowing! The hotel is beautiful, the grounds gorgeous, and the service was fantastic! We felt very spoiled! Uh, not spoiled as in brats….but very pampered

We spent a lot of time doing this -

Uh – nothing! As in lounging by the pool and summoning the pool boy for more ice tea!! HA HA Pizza eaten poolside is just so delicious!

We also spent just the right amount of time (not every day!!) at the park – we like Epcot!! and saw a princess a plenty!! The characters still make me smile

We had WAY too many meals like this -

as in huge….but, oh so yummy!! This was breakfast at Cat Cora’s Kussina (oh, I hope I spelled that right!) Breakfast has always been my favorite meal but breakfast on vacation is the absolute best! I have to admit we had a hard time finding coffee we really enjoyed. They said it was Starbucks coffee but it wasn’t like the Starbucks we enjoy at home. Really, I think what we really want is a cup of the sugary good stuff that they mix into the coffee and call it a latte!

And one of my favorite “pastimes” on vacation -

trying to take pictures of yourself!! They are always (ALWAYS) horrible and I have no idea why we keep trying but it’s entertaining somehow!

And, of course the real reason we went…….

To meet the J-man!! What fun we had with both the grands!! and why I don’t have a picture of Riley on my phone is a mystery but there are “grand” pictures a plenty…….just you wait!!

It Makes Me Smile:)

2011-09-09T16:07:00.001-04:00

Friday….and on the fourth day…there was SUN! (not at first but, finally, by afternoon…for real and genuine SUN!)….and it was good! Because, frankly, we have all been feeling a bit like this -

Too many days couped up in the house makes a soul tired! I read part of quote one time that said, “Sunshine is delicious….” Oh, indeed.

Last night when we ran out to get some dinner…we spotted this family – and they made me smile!

And, night before last, my (former) airman started a new job…working security while we goes to school.

He works the midnight shift – as in stays up all night long!?! Oh, to be young again. Could not do that no matter how much they paid me. But he does get to sleep during the day…which, for some reason, guys his age seem to have absolutely NO trouble doing!!

And, yes, the photo is blurry and I caught him mid-movement but – it still makes me smile!

On one final random note, I made some banana bread this week! Haven’t had it in way too long but it was definitely time! Yes, banana bread (and just about anything that ends in bread!) makes me smile!!

A few other things that make me smile:

Starbucks Pumpkin Lattes are BACK!!

Only four more days before we leave for Florida…and will meet the J-man for the first time! It’s about time – he is four and a half months already! Miss Riley is three already – and in Preschool!! How did that happen??

Vacation plans!

White pizza – with lots of garlic (had that for dinner last night…and I’m still smiling!)

Apple picking…as in bonafide…walking the orchards, selecting the perfect ones and pluckin ‘em yourself from the tree (pretty fun for a city girl like myself!) I have plans for this at the end of this month.

Thrift store bargains – I have had some really good luck lately!

September birthdays…we have two at our house – and our anniversary too! ANY excuse to celebrate…and eat fancy desserts!!

Have a sunny weekend, my friends!!

Its Raining and So What

2011-09-07T15:31:00.001-04:00

Today can be summed up in one word – rain! Pounding rain. Standing puddles of rain in the streets. Pouring rain that makes it so hard to drive and so miserable to take the dogs out. Endless rain. If ONLY there was only some way to send some of this rain to our friends in Texas…I truly do feel for them!

Moving on – last week Kris had a really cute post for So What Wednesday…and today I caught myself thinking just that and, so, this is my short take on So What Wednesday?!?

SO WHAT…if I put a plastic Target bag - that I scrounged up from my son’s back seat – over my head so I could run from the car to the Panera without becoming completely soaked?! Oh, yes indeed. Jordan totally ignoring me and heard to say more than just once, “Not my mom.”

SO WHAT…given the choice, I would choose my “comfortable” shoes over my cute shoes any day. Actually, I do most days. And, good choice it was today – my cute shoes would have been ruined! So, actually I’m the smart one, right?

SO WHAT…if the dog refuses to go out and take care of business unless he can share my umbrella – and I cater to him. The neighbors already think I’m crazy.

And, just for the record

SO WHAT..if I am the last – and only -person on the planet who does not have Facebook. I am all right with that. Really, I am.

What is it about Facebook anyways???

Ah, and the weather is expected to be exactly the same for two more days. Oh my. Happy Wednesday, friends:)

2011-09-05T13:39:00.001-04:00

Welcome to Monday…Labor Day! So today is the day we “honor contributions made by all workers”…oh, yes indeed – and I could go in all kinds of directions with that one! Worker. Um, in the kitchen and around its sink…working equally with the vacuum, the mop or the toilet bowl cleaner……or even in the yard – well, you get the idea. Just havin’ some fun – but I really do appreciate all the hard work my sweet family does each and every day.

Not sure that Hubbie got much time off from “working” but, somehow, chores around the yard and house can actually be enjoyable – especially when we are all working together. Today we cleaned out all the summer flowers, brush, etc. They really were spent and now everything is cleaned and ready for some fall color – which we will plant once we get back from vacation. (Yes, vacation countdown is on….)

I just couldn’t quite part with everything just yet – the geranium is my absolute favorite – so I left a couple of the pots on the back patio. Just a last little bit of summer…cause we all know “indian summer” will certainly be here in a week or two.

I just love this little man plant holder that I picked up at the beginning of the summer -

Somehow, he reminds us all of Tyler (?!?!) and has given us many a smile!

I did get a new fall wreath on the front door (picture of that later) but that is about as far as I got there. Not a whole lot further inside the house either

but it will get there. And, for the rest of the day….I have to go to work – on Labor Day…go figure!! Hope you are enjoying some good time with your family and friends!!

A Little J-man Love!!

2011-09-01T22:30:00.001-04:00

I realized it has been – well, forever – since I shared some pictures of the J-man!! who is growing like a weed!! Enjoy…and enjoy your long weekend as well!! YEAH

Can you spell that please??

2011-08-31T16:54:00.001-04:00

Yesterday was my first day (alone) at work…well, at the new job! It was a great day. I don’t know how many people really enjoy getting up and going to work – maybe more than I think – but, if you do, it is indeed a gift. And, I do. I thank the Lord for giving me this opportunity.

Yesterday was also the first day of school. The church and school share the same phone and, so, I answered a lot of calls from parents with school-related questions. Parents with children with names like: Nana, Speranza, Ha’lla, Paapa. Or, perhaps, Aeneas, Ayekie or Abena. And those are just the first names.

I spent a lot of time asking, “Can you spell that please??”

A Daybook Entry

2011-08-29T14:22:00.001-04:00

It has been awhile since I did one of these but I remember that I can get a lot said without having to think too hard…which works for me these days! So…here goes:

Outside my window….it is a picture perfect gorgeous day! I hate to say that with so many suffering from horrible humidity, heat and drought but it is true! Now, this past weekend we did have Irene run up the coast but, for us, it was more of a blessing than not. The rain was not too heavy and was so needed. We really did miss the ugly part of the storm – and I am thankful for that.

I am thinking….how bizarre this past week was – just days before the hurricane threatened the East Coast, we experienced an earthquake! Really now? The earthquake was really weird and I had no idea what was happening and, therefore, I was too naïve to be worried or even scared. But, I can also safely say that one earthquake in my lifetime is enough earthquake!

I am thankful for…my new job! I began working at my church last week – two days a week and in a “spot” just right for me. I am so privileged to have a part in this ministry and thank the Lord that He truly does desire to give us the desires of our heart.

I am wearing….yucky clothes because I am cleaning house all day. I will definitely have to rethink my schedule with working. Last week, I definitely feel behind in my housework and I truly don’t want that to happen because of the new job. So, for now – Mondays will be housework day. Not as bad as it sounds because I am one happy camper when all is in order at home! But, right now my hands smell like Mr. Clean!

I am remembering…..the last hurricane we had around these parts. I believe it was 2005. So much more damage and power outages, etc. We truly were fortunate this time.

I am going…to the mall tonight. Not that it matters in the great scheme of things but tomorrow is the first day of school at the church/school and I think I just might look for a “back to school” outfit for myself!

I am reading…Where is God? and it is taking me way too long to finish. Reading just seems to be a chore to me these days. Boo.

I am hoping…..the house stays this way for at least 24 hours. Is that too much to ask??

On my mind….all the blessings that seem to come my children’s way and, unfortunately, I don’t think they see them as such. I am thrilled and excited for them….and saddened at the same time. God is so good and so patient -

They received a huge (material) blessing this weekend. I’ll check about sharing the details but I was just tickled pink for them both! And I have no problem – at all – seeing God’s abundant blessing!!

From the kitchen….Hubbie says we need to grill out tonight. I’m tellin’ ya, the weather is gorgeous but I don’t want to rub it in. And then maybe some whoopie pies! After our walk this morning, my friend and I discussed these delicious sweet snacks – of course we did right after walking! – and now I have them on the brain. Have you ever had one??l YUM

Around the house….its shiny and the laundry is done (well, almost!) and everything is in its place. I write that only so as to have record that it actually does occur once in a blue moon!!

Plans for the week….working, walking, coffee with a friend, shopping with another friend – and I really want to drag out my fall things and start putting them out. Is it too early??? Maybe. But I really want to!!

One of the favorite things….uh, well, pulling out my fall things and starting to decorate!

A Sweet Treat–Two, actually!

2011-08-19T10:49:00.001-04:00

Remember this most amazing looking cupcake? And, trust me, it was as delicious as it was pretty. It was a treat from a friend from the infamous Georgetown Cupcake – a cupcake bakery featured on tv and not too far from my home and, yet, I have never been there! I know – why not??

But it took a sweet friend to come from all the way from South Carolina to stop by the bakery on her way home from a visit to DC in order for me to get a cupcake!! Now, how nice is that??

But – even better…this visit from a friend was a blog friend! Someone I “met” while blogging and then was able to meet in person – now that was the true sweet treat! Rose and her husband were in Washington, DC for several days (she has great photos on her blog! I never tire of pictures from the city!) and we were able to meet at Cracker Barrel on their way home.

They stopped at Georgetown Cupcake – even got there 45 minutes early to be the first in line….yes, there is a line outside every day! – in order to take cupcakes home to her daughter and family! Yep, they are that sweet. Apparently a bus arrived at Cracker Barrel just before we did and the place was swamped and completely unprepared (which seems silly when you are located right on the interstate but, whatever) and our meal was nothing short of a comical mess…but we shared some good laughs and enjoyed each other’s company as if we had been old friends!

I so enjoyed visiting. I have heard of others having the chance to meet their “blog friends” but really thought I might have the opportunity – but so glad I did. Just another reason to love blogging!! And the invitation is open and standing – if you are in..or near…the nation’s capital – please drop me line!!

Rose, so glad to have met you and your sweetie…and, thanks again for the cupcake!!

Well, Imagine That!

2011-08-16T10:45:00.001-04:00

Thanks so much for the comments reassuring me that, at least, my blog did, indeed have a title! Who knew?? I quickly went to check it out on Hubbie’s computer and – viola! – there it was! I still cannot see it on my computer nor can I find the all important tabs but I’m still in business!

And, way overdue for a post. What has been holding me back from posting – well, one good reason at least – is my lost camera! Boo. I cannot find it anywhere and, well, all blog posts are just more interesting with pictures. I was going to post today without any pictures but just could not – so I will include just couple but they are from my cell phone and are even poorer quality than my usual photos. Sad, but true.

Now for my best news….

My airman has come home!! and yes home – for good! And, no, he doesn’t always look grumpy…what is it that is so difficult for saying cheese for your mama??! He is on official “terminal leave” and will a civilian, once again, the end of September.

He earned his GI bill and will be starting classes – going back to school..ha – I love it! – in a month. I have SO enjoyed having him around the house this last week. He truly does his momma’s heart good! and he was too far away in Florida (not to mention Afghanistan!) Who knows what the future holds – but, for now, I am enjoying having both of the kids close to home. Now, if I could just do something about those grandbabies…….

And in other news…….

I have been offered a position at our church/school and will start working there next week. This is where I was working before Tyler became sick and all our children were in school. I am very excited and feel very blessed to have this opportunity. That fact alone is a testimony of God’s continuing healing in my life (there was time I would have thought I could “never go back”). God is truly good to me – allowing me, once again, to part apart of this ministry that I love.

Now, I will begin praying for wisdom to “balance all my blessings”!!

There actually have been several other really fun things going on but if I share everything now – what will I post tomorrow (or the next day)?? Not to mention….you’d be bored! But, just as a teaser….

Yesterday included this…..

and a sweet blog friend, too!!

Ugg….What have I done??

2011-08-14T15:42:00.001-04:00

As if I can’t seem to find enough time to post as often as I would like – when I do get on the computer, what do I find myself doing?? but trying to update the look…or change the design of my blog. Why?? I have no idea why but better yet – this new design is completely black at the top. I cannot see the title and I cannot see the tab that leads me to correct, design or change anything. Fortunately, I type my posts on LiveWriter or I would not even be able to find that tab! Oh my.

I suppose I won’t be “redesigning” any time soon – and my blog will remain titleless. Oh boy. And now I have spent so much time trying to undo this mess, I am out of computer time – again. But I WILL get a post up this evening….lots of fun stuff happening around here – well, fun for me, at least That will, of course, be AFTER the Next Food Network Star – please tell me I am not the only one who is totally hooked on that show!

Five is Grace

2011-08-03T17:13:00.001-04:00

Reading everyone’s sweet, heartfelt comments…and receiving so many “hugs”…has been such a blessing. I thank each one of you for your comments, prayers and words of encouragement!

Did you notice what one of my girlfriends said?? The Hebrew meaning of five is GRACE!! I love that. I am clinging to it. Over the past few years, I have claimed the word HOPE…and all it implies. Well, my “new” word is grace! (I think I’ll start cross-stitching a pillow now!!)

Thank you, again, sweet friends. And, tomorrow, exciting news!!

Five Years

2011-08-01T08:13:00.002-04:00

Five Years. I type those two words...and then I sit here. Speechless. Overwhelmed. And heartbroken. Can it truly be five entire years since our sweet Tyler breathed his last breath here on earth? Yes, he awoke to breathe new air ("and found it celestial" as the beautiful song goes) but he left us behind...and, oh my, how we have missed him.

Today my heart is full of a myriad of emotions. My brain races with so many memories - almost too many memories. And, yet...God has given me peace. And little glimpses of Heaven and sweet reminders of His continued presence, comfort and care for each of us missing Tyler.

I'm not sure I can correctly express my thoughts today (actually I'm rather positive that I cannot); however, I am using this post to "think aloud".....and if you choose to skip it from here, that will not offend me. But God is so good and has been so patient - and I am beginning to see it as I think back over the past five years.

There was a time - in those first months...or longer - that Tyler was my motivation for living. The deepest and darkest pit of despair jeered and called my name and with ever fiber of my being I wanted to crawl inside, cover myself in a thick blanket of despondency and simply lie there. But I told myself every morning, that would not honor Tyler's life. (Of course, there were other reasons this was a totally bad idea but the idea of Tyler being so disappointed with me truly was my reason.) Each morning, I pressed on.

Then I found myself seeking out and connecting with other grieving moms. Having someone "understand" me was enormous. Having someone who would listen to me talk about Tyler - and even wanted to do so! - was a true gift. Believing I could do the same for them in return, if just in a small way, was a tremendous gift. Some of these women were in my life for just a season and others remain good friends, but ALL of them are precious to me and continue to be inspirations.

And, for the majority of the past five years, I have been propelled by the idea of making Tyler's life "count".....trying to ensure not only that his precious life was remembered but the significance of that life would be recognized. It truly is a grieving mother's greatest fear - that her child will somehow be forgotten. On even the darkest days (and there are still very sad days), this preserving Tyler's memory has been my motivation to truly keep pressing on.

And here is where I'm not sure if I can express my heart. However, as I reflect on these stages, while none of them are wrong, I notice they are linked to "the past." And God has been gently shaping (or reshaping) my spirit, molding my heart and giving me a new longing - with a new purpose - that turns towards the future. To be sure, my memories are a treasure. The impact of Tyler's life on so many has been a gift. And while they continue to serve a purpose, these things do not have to be my motivation for living. Indeed, they cannot be for these things pass away. Heaven is my goal. Honoring my savior with my life is my motivation. Allowing Him to use my experiences to minister to others is cause to keep pressing on.

The beautiful thing is Tyler is also a part of my future!! I know - as sure as I know Tyler is my son - that Tyler was God's child and he is now in Heaven waiting for that grand reunion by and by.....one day (maybe soon!) he will take me by the hand to meet Jesus face to face. What a day that will be! Truly there is no better reason for living than that!

My Little Rooster Jar

2011-07-25T21:57:00.001-04:00

Good Monday evening! I hope everyone had a great weekend. The weather has been 110 in the shade – literally! – and HUMID! I love the summer but my yard is so sad looking and the porch plants are not much better. We could certainly use a good shower or two…even a summer storm would be welcome

This past weekend in our neck of the woods…it was the 150th anniversary of a civil war battle and there was plenty of hoopla – complete with reenacters in their long-sleeve wool shirts and jackets, etc. I have to confess I do not appreciate history nearly as much as I should (well, I appreciate it….I just would never be considered a history buff) but I totally do not understand making your hobby reenacting wars. Way past me. But, apparently, there are A LOT of folks who do just that for fun…and a whole lot more who are more than willing to sit in the open sun-parched field to watch ‘em!!

It is safe to say – I did not join in the celebration. I didn’t much venture out of the house for that matter – it was hot. I have been working on a few projects around the house. Nothing huge..just fun. And that brings me to my question…..

I saw this little jar at the consignment store last week….

I loved it! and I had to have it Now, what do I want to do with it?? I’m open for suggestions. Its not too big but the opening is “wide mouth” – I’m just curious how you would use it??

Thanks friend!! Oh, and just for the record – Christmas is exactly 6 months from today!!

Reverse Thinking

2011-07-22T11:59:00.003-04:00

My hats off to all of you who are able to post on your blogs with some type of regularity! How do you do it?? Each morning, I have the best of intentions...and each evening, I resolve to try again tomorrow (sounds exactly like my approach to exercising)!!

Although I have not posted this week, I have been able to read through your blogs and even visit a couple new ones - do you suppose THAT is where all my time goes?!?? I even seem to have found the cure for not being able to leave comments:) Woo Hoo.

While I was browsing, I came across this video. I was so impacted...I wanted to remember it and have a chance to share it. So, I'm posting it:) Yep, that's multi-tasking:)

Have a wonderful weekend, friends.

Hello sweet friends…….

2011-07-13T10:04:00.001-04:00

Oh, where to begin……if I only had some catchy title to announce the repair of my computer, my reconnection to cyberspace and my return to the blogging world! But, suffice it to say…all of that is true. Hopefully, my computer woes are behind me. It has been quite the challenge – as well as quite nice in many respects – to be internet free/unavailable for almost two months but, yes, the time has come to finally reconnect!

I have been trying to read your blogs and I am amazed at all that I have missed and the busy, eventful lives so many of you live!! But it has been fun to “catch up” a bit and I will be awhile reading through back posts. And then, of course, there will be posting of my own to do. I have yet to decide how often that will take place but I’m just excited to, at least, have the option…..to blog or not to blog today??

My last post certainly was a cliffhanger – ok, may that is a stretch – but our daughter was soon to deliver….and deliver she did!! Let me introduce the newest (cutest) little one in our family…

Welcome Baby Jack…..or the J-man!!

Lookin' For a Boy!

2011-04-29T13:15:00.005-04:00

AHHHH - my computer crashed! Literally, just up and gave up the ghost! How do these things happens...and, better yet, why now - when I would so like to have access to the world:) So, I had to highjack a computer just so the world (or at least my little group of blogging friends) would know...Today is the Day!!!

Erica is at the hospital and labor is underway:) Hopefully, sometime this afternoon - Riley will be a big sister!!

Hope to find ways to share the good news - ie, pictures:) Have a beautiful weekend!!

The (Ugly) Truth About Memories

2011-04-25T22:24:00.001-04:00

I hope that everyone had a beautiful Easter weekend. The weather here was picture perfect! We had a wonderful crowd at church yesterday morning and our little handbell choir even did a fair job Yes, I play the handbells. We are the “Dead Ringers” – ha! We are definitely amateurs but we ring those bells with lots of heart!

I will have to admit that this holiday has been a difficult one for me. I really do not know what has made this week more painful than some others but grief never does seem to be predictable. Last week was also the “anniversary” of my dad’s death and funeral; perhaps my grieving has been compounded. I’m not sure but I do know – for sure – that Easter and all that is means…Christ’s victory of death!….gives me real hope – and I try my best to cling to that hope during these extra difficult weeks.

I was talking with a woman at the store the other day who was brokenhearted for her friend that had just moved her husband to an assisted living facility. He was suffering with Parkinson's and has Alzheimer's. I hurt for this lady as well as her friend and her husband. Alzheimer's is just such a devastating illness.

As I thought about him later, I began to thank God for my memory. Sometimes, I confess the memories can, indeed, be painful. How I long for loved ones..and even for times that were precious but are not just a memory. Oh, but the truth is…those memories are such a wonderful gift. I treasure them and love to rehearse them in my mind. I pray that I will have them with me for my lifetime – and that they will remain vivid and clear and real.

I also want to purpose to work at creating new – just as precious – memories. As much as I cherish the memories of yesterdays, they are not today. And there is much to cherish about today as well. As a grieving mom, it is one more learning lesson – the perspective of memories. It’s a tough one, no doubt, but I’m working on it.

Christ Conquered Death for Me

2011-04-20T08:45:00.001-04:00

We are having our spring revival at church this week. I do not remember the revival being so close to Easter before, but I have to admit the timing has been perfect for me. What a wonderful way to prepare for Easter…….searching my own heart, being encouraged in the word and rejoicing to see others come to Christ! It has been a good week.

Tonight, I am teaching the littlest guys in the children’s program while the service is going on. (A bit of a bummer – although, I love teaching….tonight’s message is on prophecy which I would love to hear.)

I know the children have been learning the Easter story at home, in Sunday school and even in Junior Church….so, I thought I would teach the story of Lazarus – with a few references to Christ’s resurrections…..both similarities and differences!

photo from the internet

John 11:43-44….”And when he thus had spoken, he cried with a loud voice, Lazarus, come forth. And he that was dead came forth…..”

I Corinthians 15:3-4….”For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Crist died for our sins according to the scripture; and that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures”

Praising the Lord, today, for victory over death!!

Counting the Days

2011-04-19T10:39:00.001-04:00

Just in case I haven’t mentioned it lately……it is almost time to meet our grandson!!

Mommy is 38 weeks tomorrow Everyone is healthy and we are just waiting……..

Red Outside My Window

2011-04-18T16:23:00.001-04:00

Not quite Monday morning but a Monday post nevertheless. And it wasn't that we weren't up early enough this morning either. In fact, we were up extra early (too early according to Hubbie....but that's his opinion!)

I mentioned last Monday that I had some upcoming tests - probing, prodding and biopsy type tests - this week...and they were this morning. I'll never understand why you have to be at the hospital at 7:00am for a 9:00am procedure. Anyhoo, all went very well and I appreciate the kind thoughts and prayers. As my mama used to say, I am healthy as a horse! (Is that a compliment??)

Being up extra early allows you to see the sunrise in all its glory - and this morning was no disappointment! The horizon was covered in bright orange and glowy red! We have in our bedroom a palladium style window over the bed. I have never really cared for this window. Actually, I have complained and moaned quite often about said window. (Really, it is a decorating nightmare!) But from this window we have the perfect views of, not only, brilliant sunrises but also gorgeous full moons and captivating night skies. Funny how I get so focused on the window - and miss the view itself!

But, sweet Hubbie, is always quick to point out the beauty outside the window. (I'm not sure he even notices the lack of curtain or other appropriate window dressing?!!?) This morning he called me over to notice the sunrise. As I drank in the view, I could hear my granddad's voice as clear as ever...."Red at night, sailor's delight. Red in the morning....sailor's warning."

He used the sky to get his weather report. So cool. And, did you know - its straight from the Bible? "...When it is evening, ye say It will be fair weather: for the sky is red. And in the morning, It will be foul weather to day: for the sky is read and lowring......" Matthew 16:2-3

I love that. And I'm beginning to love my window, too!:)

In Awe This (Thankful) Thursday

2011-04-14T07:54:00.001-04:00

I have been thinking of Easter….

and new life

and new mercies!!

“They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.”Lamentations 3:13

My Boy Is (Officially) a Man

2011-04-12T22:46:00.001-04:00

Dear Jordan,

Happy Birthday – to my buddy!! Truly, on one hand it seems like only yesterday you were the most adorable little tow-head toddler that charmed our hearts and filled our home with smiles and giggles and non-stop energy! At the very same time, on the other hand, I am amazed – and proud beyond words – of the man you have become!

But, it is true. Today you are twenty-one!! A man by any definition. I suppose you have been “a man” in your mama’s eyes ever since that day you left for Texas…to join the Air Force – serving our country and beginning your own career. Oh, but the memories of those years leading up to that point are my everything! I am blessed beyond measure to be your mommy!!

I must admit spending these special days so far apart is difficult for me. Who made you a cake…or cooked your birthday dinner (what would you have requested this year??)…or even put up the balloons?? But I pray that you knew throughout the day how very much you are loved…and how very proud we are of you…..and how exciting it is to see what lies ahead for you!!

Yes, you will always be my buddy. But you are an amazing man. I love you the mostest. Happy Birthday, son!!

A Daybook Entry on a Beautiful Day!

2011-04-11T12:47:00.001-04:00

I am "late" posting this morning...not that there is a required time but I do try to get my computer time done earlier rather than later; however, it has been a totally splendid morning here and I have so been enjoying it - walking the dog, talking with the Lord, enjoying breakfast outside and even getting some cleaning done. Why do chores seem so much easier when the weather is so lovely??

Still wanted to get a daybook entry done - just to get my thoughts recorded:)

Outside my window...it is beautiful but I have especially noticed all the cardinals! Cardinals are very, very special to me - one was a specific gift from God once on one of my lowest days - and my heart always smiles and I immediately think of Tyler, of Heaven and of my savior whenever I see one. I usually see them one at a time but today I saw, at least, three! I will be walking on air for days!!

I am thinking...of very specific answers to prayers in the past. I know God answer prayers. I know that. Right now, I am in a period of waiting on some heavy-burdened prayers and I can start to forget that God is still working - even in the waiting. Counting blessings...and answered prayers...helps me to remember.

I am wearing...a white shirt - HA! (that is an old joke...sorry if you missed it.)

I am remembering....a special visit from our assistant pastor to Tyler when he was in Children's Hospital. So funny how these memories come at me...seemingly from nowhere. Last night at church, as I had my head bowed, Pastor T walked down the aisle. I saw his cowboy boots:) and - just like that - that visit came back to me as clear as if it had been yesterday. Tyler LOVED Pastor T! He was his hero. And as much as Tyler HATED that time in the hospital, he LOVED that visit from Pastor T!! I'll admit - those "out of nowhere" memories can really get me. And sometimes they hurt so bad - but I wouldn't trade them for anything and pray that I never lose them.

I am going...to a meeting at Children's tonight. It has been some months since I went to one of these meetings and some months since being back at the hospital. Not quite sure how I feel about it.

I am reading...Made to Crave and The End of the Spear. Both really good books but why do I have so much trouble finishing books????

I am hoping...cooler, yucky days are gone for good!!

On my mind...Tyler. Always. There is also an upcoming medical test I have to do next week that I do not want to do. At all. But I do need the results - so I can stop stressin' over it. Ugh.

From the kitchen...this really should be OUT of the kitchen. I am "purging" the kitchen of sugar. Having been on this diet, it is not too huge of a leap but a leap nonetheless. My biggest challenge is getting past "wasting" food by simply throwing things out. It would be very easy to convince myself that I'll go sugar-free as soon as I eat all this sugar in my pantry!! Probably not a great idea.

Around the house....are too many doggie toys!! What is up with that??!

Plans for the week....Someone special has a birthday tomorrow!! So wish we could be together and really celebrate - but we will make the best of it:)

One of my favorite things.....Coconut Milk Creamer. So yummy. I found this yummy treat for my coffee from Kris - THANK YOU!

A New Welcome

2011-04-08T12:18:00.003-04:00

When I got up this morning my front door looked like this (pretty ordinary and a bit boring!)

But before I left for work, it looked like this….

So much cuter – and just with one word! Shannon introduced me to GroopDealz – and I’m already a bit addicted This vinyl stencil was my first deal!

You need to check this site out – but I’m warning you…you might get hooked!!

Hope your weekend is full of fun – and happy moments!!

Spring Is In the Air…and In The Yard

2011-04-06T22:16:00.002-04:00

I love spring! And I think spring just might have finally arrived here. The weather has been a bit crazy…beautiful breezes and short-sleeve temperatures one day and the very next day will bring bitter winds, horrible rains or even sleet and hail! But, despite the fluctuating temperatures, everything is budding, blooming and turning green! And I am never awed by it all!

I come by my nature appreciation…well, naturally. My family, on my dad’s side, is a long line of green thumbs and lovers of all things botanical. My grandad had a gorgeous yard full to the brim with azaleas and other flowering plants. My dad’s yard was no exception. Our yard was always immaculate and sharper than a Tiger Woods golf course

Every season, Dad would ooh, awe and gush over the latest explosion of blooms. “Look at those forsythia…or dogwoods…or redbuds.” “Did you see those jonquils coming up?” And on and on as if he were seeing them for the very first time.

And, now, I hear myself doing the very same thing. Unfortunately, I totally did NOT get the green thumb gene…and I am more than a little disappointed about that. But the love – the want to – is still there. I especially love that all these buds and blooms remind me of my dad. Oh, how I would love to have him working along side Hubbie and I as we attempt to work wonders in our own little yard.

The new buds also remind me of new birth – the promise of new life. And that reminder makes Heaven even more real…and even sweeter as I know I will see, not only my Tyler, but also my dad, my mom and many others one day. And, who knows, maybe soon!

Thanks for the Tip

2011-04-06T09:41:00.004-04:00

I so enjoyed reading everyone's comments on my previous "return to blogging" post. All of you are so encouraging and, as I expected, have so many good ideas for time management - and all sorts of things! One blogging friend suggested a website that was new to me and I have really enjoyed it. Have you been to MoneySavingMom?? I have really only scratched the surface but this site is full of good ideas, advice, recipes, menu ideas and tools to help make life easier:) And I'm all for that! There are also freebies....and I'm all about that, too!! This morning while I was quickly looking around there I came across some of her posts regarding baking day - setting aside a day for baking in bulk and freeezing for later. (There was a recipe for whole wheat waffles...yum!!) I have also heard of this idea with regard to cooking - not just baking - but I have never tried either one. Would love to know if any of you have such a day ...baking, cooking or pre-meal planning?? Does it really work?? Although I don't do nearly as much baking or cooking these days, I am all about advance preparation and time management in the kitchen:) Have a great Wednesday. Just a note - as I type this...there are nice divided paragraphs and easy to read sentences. I sure hope they actually post that way! (Yes, I have gotten advice on tyring to avoid posts like Monday's post...but I had trouble with it. But, I'm working on it!)

A Fresh Beginning

2011-04-04T10:01:00.005-04:00

Time to start posting again - and I'm excited. I have to admit I enjoyed the break...especially time away from the computer but that was not my real reason for a break. Not sure all of my reasons...or goals...have been accomplished but it is time to press on:) I will say one of my big struggles, at least right now, is time management. I suppose most folks feel they don't have enough time in their day. For me, I have the time - sometimes TOO much time on my hands - but I just don't seem to use it productively....and the way that God would have me to do. I would LOVE any tips/ideas/suggestions for help in this area. That is certainly one thing, among many, that I enjoy about blogging. There is much wisdom and very practical advice among my blogging friends. So, do share:) During the month of March: ** two of my very best friends celebrated birthdays - I am so thankful for the gift of life-long friends. God blesses us with all kinds of friends and each one is a gift; however, there are truly only a rare few that last a lifetime. I have several of these friends and I know am beyond blessed to have them in my life. ** I attended a really nice ladies' seminar at a nearby church. What a nice day that was - and the topic....Finding God's purpose in your life. Now there is a subject I think I could study and digest for hours. What about you? How do you seek His purpose in your life? **We have been really digging into the book of Matthew during my weekly Bible study. This study has been so much more than I even anticipated and I so look forward to Tuesday mornings.....and JOY in the mornings! **I went car shopping - and bought - a car with my daughter. (Uh, she bought the car!) That is always an experience....and one that I really do not enjoy but it was a great learning experience for her. Well, for both of us. **God has answered several prayers this month. He also has us waiting....and waiting still...for several major requests. I am trying to learn - and learn much - during this season of waiting but, I have to admit, it is not easy. What is it about waiting that is such a challenge?? I suppose the rest of March was filled with the routine:) And routine can be a good thing. And, now on with April. I always love a new week....a new month....and a new season, even!! Today is supposed to be spring!! Hope you have a wonderful Monday as well. Thanks for stopping by, friends.

Until Heaven

2011-03-25T18:23:00.002-04:00

Yes, I have been on a blogging break - a much needed break. Simply thinking....reevaluating as well as regrouping and prioritizing. It has been a good break.

But I have enjoyed visiting my blog friends - although I have not been on the computer as often. I am, so often, truly blessed and encouraged when I visit your blogs as you share your thoughts, your creative ideas and, simply your hearts!

I hope to begin posting again soon - in the next week or so, perhaps. But I did want to get a post in to share a blog site that is very special to me. I am so privileged to have a (very) small part in this site. I am humbled to share "writing space" with such special writers as the other moms included here. The blog is Until Heaven.

It is written specifically for moms who have children diagnosed with life-threatening illnesses. It offers real hope from moms "who have been there" and encouragement along the way.

This blog is still in its baby stage but I just know that God has big plans for this site and the potential for what God can do with these weekly devotionals is awe-inspiring to me. The devotions are published once a week - on Mondays - and, really, are wonderful for any mom...but, especially for moms who are hurting because their child is hurting. If you know of anyone who could be encouraged by this blog....please share it with them.

As well, we would love to honest feedback on how we can make this site the most helpful for those who need it. Please share.

Still Thinkin' Spring

2011-02-25T08:54:00.013-05:00

Had every intention of getting some snapshots of the new bedroom color but, wouldn't you know it is too grey today! Ha ha - get it...too GREY! I'm just too funny.

But, it is rainy and bleak and a good day for ducks - but not for pictures. I did, however, come across this older picture of our bedding. Just to refresh your memory. You can see where the idea of purple came from...and you can barely see the highlights of grey. You can also see the ugly builder beige/whatever color that used to be on the walls.

Since I was not able to get the pictures - I decided to stick with my Friday's Favorite Five post...and talk some more about spring. Maybe I can just WISH it here. There are so many things to LOVE about spring: sun tea, pedicures and flip flops (or sandals...I am a sandals girl myself), putting away the winter gear and cleaning out the coat closet and just opening the house up! I love that. Here are five more of my favorite things to look forward to this spring:

ONE: Longer days and sunshine! Days that you might even need to break out the sunglasses - and look as sassy and cute as Miss Riley:)

I love the sun staying out longer than five o'clock. When the sun sets so early, I feel tired. All the time.

Just the other day, I was on my way home from work - and the sun was right in my eyes - which wasn't terribly comfortable but, at least, it was still up and it wasn't dark outside!

TWO: Long walks with the dogs! Ok - so this photo is from the fall - Thanksgiving, actually - but it pretty much depicts many of our walks. You never can be sure who is walking whom??

Our dog walks lately have been more like mad dashes - out and in as quickly as possible. I know the dogs will enjoy actual walks...and, who knows, I might even get some exercise and not notice it!

THREE: Easter! I love this holiday. I have SO many wonderful memories from Easter - from my own childhood...as far back as I can remember....and through all the Easters with my own children. Easter also reminds me of my parents. We always spent the holiday with them. We had the best times.

Remember this photo I shared last year of the kiddos in their new Easter duds from their Mimi? What cutie-patooties!!

FOUR: Flowers - and working in the yard. Goodness, everything looks so bleak right now. I am just itching to get in the flower beds and work with the porch pots. I'm not a gardener by any stretch of the imagination but I love to get a color around the yard. I'll be happy just for the grass to turn green again.

Hard to believe these blooms were in our backyard last year. Let's hope they come back:)

And, FIVE: My Jordan's birthday! Usually right around Easter - but Easter is incredible late this year...did you notice? So, Jordan's birthday will be a couple weeks before Easter this year - and he turns 21!! How can that be??

I am so proud of this young man - he just has no idea!??! We will have to plan something really special in order to celebrate:)

Well, that's get me started - what about you? What are looking forward to this spring??

Yearning for Spring

2011-02-24T05:35:00.000-05:00

Yes, there were several guesses about the color for the bedroom - and apparently there are quite a few green bedrooms out there:) - but no one guessed our color!! Let me say, first, it was not any shade of purple...as I had imagined it would be. We tested way too many purples before I finally figured out - purple was not working for me. We were really running out of time, and somewhat in desperation, I convinced Hubbie we needed to stick to our Plan A - our first color choice.....GREY!

Yup, its grey...and it is gorgeous, if I do say so myself. We really did not have a chance to test/sample many shades of grey but, instead, went with our gut instinct. Goodness, if we had only done that from the beginning because it was just the right shade. Might not sound like the perfect bedroom color but it is.

Having said that, I have not had the time to take pictures - oh, but I will. I like how everything looks during the day with all the sun streaming in - and, oh yeah, this working thing can really get in your way during the day:)

I did snap a few pictures yesterday morning. I am trying to keep up with Project: 52 Photos - a photo a week that captures my life/my world that week. And, even with all that is going on, I am really all about the weather these days. When, oh when, will spring ever arrive?? And to be fooled with several gorgeous days - only to have winter return, has been torture for this heat-lovin' girl!

Even the pansies are confused. Try as they might to rebloom and stretch toward the sun....the ground around them remains covered with snow (again!) and it is cold. Oh, the irony...and the longing for spring and I thought this shot captured that this week.

Psalm 19:14

2011-02-23T09:04:00.005-05:00

It's Wednesday - and that means I'm off to work...and little time to blog. So, just a thought I read today in my morning devotions -

"If you could not speak a word, what would your life say to others?" - Dr. Stanley

Pretty deep for 6:30 in the morning....but one to think about throughout today. Have a great day, friends. And, I'll let you in on the paint color tomorrow:)

A New Chicken Recipe:)

2011-02-22T08:47:00.003-05:00

It snowed. Oh, and iced. What in the world is up with the weather?? Just four days ago, we weren't just dreaming about spring...we were living it. The weather was gorgeous. And, today, right back to winter - it is COLD! - and right back to dreaming!!

The painter was here all day yesterday - can't wait to show off the color - but was unable to finish so he needs to come back this morning. I was fine with that but, have to admit, was disappointed that I would miss my Tuesday morning Bible study. Ah, the weather cancelled Bible study, which I know throws a monkey wrench into the schedule but - for me - I didn't miss anything:)

Just trying to stay positive, folks.

Not sure how we ended up with two house projects going on back to back. Both had been planned and/or in the works for weeks and then just came together at the same time. What fun, though. Choosing the right color for the bedroom was much more of a challenge than I imagined. They used to sell little bottles of samples, but, now, a sample is a pint and is $5.99! And, oh yeah, we ended up buying five of those things! Put two or three stripes on the wall only to figure out....that color just was not the one. And, then, what do you do with all those pints?? The best part - we ended up choosing a color that we never even sampled! That's just how we roll. But we love it! The color is perfect - any guesses?

What would be the perfect bedroom color for you?? I love all your comments:) and appreciate the suggestions - and all the kind words! - on the kitchen from yesterday's post! We really are enjoying the kitchen. In fact, I tried a new recipe last night...and it was super yummy. Totally the new kitchen:) Thought I would share it today. Its a keeper.

Parmesan Chicken Roll-ups

1 pound, skinless chicken breasts tenderloins
1 clove garlic, finely minced
2 tablespoons lemon juice
1/4 cup margarine, melted
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
1/2 cup Italian dry bread crumbs
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon pepper
paprika

Wash and drain chicken. In small bowl, combine garlic, lemon juice and melted margarine. In separate bowl, combine cheese, bread crumbs, salt and pepper. Dip chicken in margarine; then roll in crumb mixture to coat. Roll chicken up and secure with toothpick. Place in shallow dish that has been spritzed with oil. Sprinkle chicken with a little paprika to garnish. Cover with aluminum foil; bake at 350 for 40 minutes. Uncover and bake 10-20 minutes longer...checking for doneness.

And In With the New

2011-02-21T08:56:00.005-05:00

And, without further ado........our new kitchen!! My goodness, are we ever enjoying our new countertops!

I have to say the guys that were here did a fantastic job! Once the old counters were removed, all of the imperfections from the builders work could really be seen. Mike - from Holmes on Homes at HGTV - could have done an entire episode. There were holes in the walls behind the backsplash and the lower cabinets were so unlevel....it really was sad. They fixed it all and worked really hard - even before they actual installing began.

Hubbie has to paint the grout - but other than that, we were so pleased with the color. (You try your best to pick the perfect piece in the warehouse...but you never know for certain just how "perfect" will look once it is in the house. Goodness, you should see me trying to pick the perfect paint color for the bedroom - but that is another post!)

This kitchen could just possibly inspire me to cook more! and if it could only improve the end results, it really would be a miracle kitchen! If you are ever in my neck of the woods, please stop by...and rest awhile in my kitchen. I can make a mean grilled cheese:)

I picked up this for the center of the island while I was out antiquing on Friday. My girlfriend and I "discovered" a new shop and, oh my goodness, what fun we had!! It is a bit of a drive from home but so worth the trip. I LOVE looking for the new finishing touches! Scroll back up to the first photo - the one with the window that has no curtains. Any ideas?? I would LOVE any color and/or style suggestions.

Happy Monday, friends!

Yes, Indeedy....Today is the Day

2011-02-17T14:40:00.002-05:00

As I type, it is out with the old..................

and, hopefully, this afternoon - in with the new! More pictures to follow -

You Gotta Love It

2011-02-16T09:35:00.003-05:00

Another one of these quick posts before going to work (which apparently does not work too well for me if you notice all the errors in yesterday's posts - makes the editor in me completely shudder and panic)....but I saw this photo this morning on the internet - and just had to grab it!!

This beauty -whether it be male or female, who knows?? - is a komondorak, I believe...and totally makes me smile! Laugh, really:)

I thought of several cute sayings I could add to this post with this picture (beauty is in the eye of the beholder) and even some more meaningful comments about enjoying - even "strutting" - our own special uniqueness...or remembering that we were each created perfectly by our Heavenly Father.

But, then I just enjoyed the picture!! Have a great Wednesday, friends! (and do overlook all the typos...grr!)

Life is Sweet

2011-02-15T14:44:00.006-05:00

Hope everyone had a fun day yesterday - you and your special valentine!! My day was a lot of fun..especially with my party during the day - and with all my planning, we never really had a plan for the two of us last night. After the kitchen was clean and all was quiet, we thought about going out for some dinner but I made a few phone calls and the shortest wait we found was 70 minutes. Uh, no. So, I very sweetly made some highly romantic grilled cheese......we went all out!!

HA - but there were no complaints! There never are - I really am blessed. We did open some presents later in the evening...but let me mention the party a bit first. I tried some new recipes which were all a hit! I had oriental chicken salad that I found at Kris' blog (Simplify on my sidebar)..for a light lunch. I did not want everyone filling up before the dessert bar - where we had sugar cookies, chocolate brownie bites, coconute cake bites, chocolate covered strawberries, chocolate chunk cranberry cookies (from Martha Stewart) and Death by Chocolate! Do you see a theme there?? No - not calories...but chocolate! Everything was so yummy. I wish I could say I pulled it all off by myself but my girlfriend came into town a day early just to help...and help she did!! She is a great cook and really fills in all the places I'm lacking:) Spending the time in the kitchen with her was as much fun as the party itself!! Great friends are amazing!!

I did the table all in red and white - and candies! And then totally forgot to take a single picture...but Valentines was definitely in the air:) We finished the afternoon off with a Valentine's gift exchange and I came away with the CUTEST napkin rings for spring! It really was a fun day.

Later that evening, we exchanged some gifts at home. Our children spoiled us:) That huge red heart is for dad....from Jordan. Hubbie does LOVE his chocolate and everyone knows it - there is no such thing as too much chocolate for him. (Note to Jo....he LOVED it!!)

We also did some happy dancin'......the dogs get so excited over just about anything!!

Family...friends....funny dogs!! The only thing that could have my day any sweeter would have been able to see this little valentine - who really melts my heart!! Awww, Miss Riley:) We miss you!!

Make It a Sweet Day

2011-02-14T05:45:00.001-05:00

I hope everyone has a wonderful day....full of chocolate:) and sweet times with the special people that you love the most! Even if you don't have a "sweetheart", or perhaps can not be near your loved ones - embrace the day filled with the knowledge that Jesus loves us more than we can comprehend...and He fills every empty or hurting spot in our hearts with that love!

If you had special plans today - or maybe were treated with a sweet surprise....I would love to hear about it tomorrow!! And remember - all diets are off on Valentine's Day!!:)

Valentine Fun

2011-02-11T09:13:00.003-05:00

With Valentine's Day just around the corner, I thought I would share five super simple ways to have fun with your kiddos - be they your children...or your grand!children:) It does not cost a lot of money or take tons of creativity (thank goodness!) to enjoy a "sweet" day with those little ones you love so much. All of these ideas, although not original, have been tried and tested at our house - and have made for great memories!

One - pink milk and sprinkles!! I mentioned this one in my daybook entry on Monday but I'll mention it here again. A little food coloring in your breakfast milk - and it is a special day already!! And then add sprinkles - whether red or pink...hearts or dots..it doesn't matter - and the day is over the top! My kiddos loved toaster strudels (read that LOVED toaster strudels) and adding the heart sprinkles was the best!!

This little bit of fun can be changed up a bit to help make St. Patrick's Day fun (green, of course) or Easter (think yellow) or even the first day of spring (maybe baby blue)!!

Two - cardboard hearts:) As a teacher of twos and threes at church, I used to decorate our classroom for the holidays and always had a supply of wall decorations..typically found at a teacher's store...the type of things used for bulletin boards. One year, I pulled out a pile of hearts, attached thread/ribbon to them, and hung them all from the kitchen ceiling. When the kids came down for breakfast the next morning, you would have thought they were in Disney. Who knew hearts hanging from the ceiling could make a day so much fun?!?!

I did that every year after that - just to maintain my awesome mommy status:)

Three - a heart cake! These are super easy but, just in case you aren't sure.....mix up your favorite cake (if you use yellow...think about that food coloring!) and bake in one round and one square pan. When cooled, cut the round one in half. Turn the square one so it looks like a diamond and place a round half on each side at the top of the diamond - viola! it is a heart. Ice the entire thing and go crazy with those sprinkles!

Four - Eat a meal somewhere other than the kitchen table (or wherever your typical spot may be!) Around here, it is too cold in February to eat outside but dinner served picnic style in the family room could turn the most ordinary meal into a huge treat! And when the kiddos were older, eating in the dining room always signaled a special meal - that said I love you!

Our meals in the dining room are some of my fondest memories. I am glad we did not do them too often in order to keep those meals special - but I sure wish I had more of those great memories! Tyler especially loved planning and preparing for these meals - totally his thing!!

Five - fondue! This is another idea I stumbled upon quite by accident (somewhat like the kitchen heart streamers) but earned me just the same great mom status:) I came across a small pink fondue pot on a clearance rack on year and tucked it away "for a rainy day." I actually remembered it on Valentine's Day and served chocolate fondue that night after dinner. The kids thought we were eating like royalty! We had soo much fun that night!! and looked forward to our fondue every year after that - and I only use it on the 14th:)

I hope you have so fun ideas up your sleeve for Monday - and I would love to hear about them. I am working on my party - a bit more grown-up this year.....but I just might need to break out that fondue pot!!

A Little Bit of Americana

2011-02-10T11:36:00.006-05:00

Already Thursday and I have not been able to blog since Thursday. I guess becoming high-maintenance really does interfere with your computer time....oh, and your cleaning time, making dinner time, and - well, you get the picture. Definitely time to rethink my daily/weekly schedule.

But, onto better topics:) We had some snow this morning - a pitiful little amount - but they cancelled school and that cancelled Bible study this morning. Our friends in the mid-west would be either laughing hysterically or completely disgusted to think we could not make it to school this morning...but it is officially a snow day! With my change of plans this morning, I really have no excuse not to get caught up a bit at home today - but it isn't happening!

There are too many project going on - the kitchen granite goes in next week - hooray! And somehow I got sidetracked and started the master bedroom. We are having that painted on Monday and who KNEW how difficult finding just the right shade could be!! I have been busy painting test squares of different colors on the walls - and immediately eliminating all of them!

I thought for my photo of the week, I would share the craziness I have created in my bedroom - but quickly thought again. So, instead a couple shots from our guest room - referred to as Tyler's room:) When we moved in here, I decided I did not want to use my Americana things and stored them in the basement. They were there for a year. Recently, I decided the guest room looked "undone" but did not want to invest in new things right now - with all the other projects going on - so I pulled out what I had and used them again. Actually, they make me quite happy:)

The main thing I notice when I see these pictures is just how desperately we need to paint in there....ha! But when I look past that, I see Tyler's things, his pictures and I see memories...even in the red, white and blue that was always a part of our house for so many years!

Try as I might, I just cannot get away from "all the bears"! They aren't quite as everywhere as they once were, but some of them as just so stinkin' cute and I can't put them away. This little girl sits on top of Ty's chest of drawers.

Did I not tell you the walls were stark?? But I love love the wardrobe full of Tyler's treasures - so many memories packed on those shelves:) On the wall above is a favorite photo of Tyler and his bestest buddy, Morgan. I will share that picture at the end....

Well, I see some cords that need to be hidden:) The book on the table is Letters to God - from the movie. Absolutely precious.....

Morgan had this picture of him and Tyler drawn by a friend at church. It is a pencil drawing from a photo of the two of them on the first day of first grade! I tried to use some "fancy" effect on the photo when I uploaded it - but it looks a bit fuzzy. I think you get the idea, though. Two cuties excited about school and the best of friends!!

Have a great Thursday. Here's hoping to getting something accomplished. Hubbie asked if I wanted to meet him for lunch. Well...that will cut into my day before having to go to work. But who passes up lunch with their hunky husband?? Not me:)

The Week Before Valentine's Day:)

2011-02-07T10:54:00.003-05:00

My Simple Woman's Daybook: Feb. 7, 2011

Outside my window...it is a gorgeous day! Sunny - and almost all the snow is melted. I was out earlier this morning - taking Mr. Rascal to the groomer:) - and the morning felt wonderful!

I am thinking...that Valentine's Day is almost here. I heard it again yesterday....the naysayer's comments about how Valentine's Day is just a commercialized excuse to spend money...blah, blah, blah. I feel sorry for those party-poopers! I think its cute and fun and just another way to tell my family that I love them. I especially enjoyed the day when the kiddos were little - but even now, we try to have a good time with the day!

I am thankful....for my family - and for so many fun memories I have from the years of raising our children. It always is interesting to me that the simpliest things - like pink milk for breakfast on Valentine's Day - are the things my children seem to remember best!

I am wearing....pink!! Settin' the mood, already:)

I am remembering....my rather long to-do list for today - and for the week - and hoping I can get it all done. For the most part, is all fun stuff...so I'm looking forward to it!

I am going...to a ladies' meeting tonight. It is Mexican night - yum - and I just made a crock pot of taco soup. But I'm really looking forward to the enchiladas and the tres leche cake!! Oh yeah.

I am reading....cook books. Don't know why exactly but I have had the best time this week reading through some of my cook books that I have not pulled off the shelf in quite awhile.

I am hoping...several new ladies can make it to our fellowship tonight. It is so nice to have a chance to meet some of the newer ladies at church in a smaller setting - a get to know them better.

On my mind....Valentine's Day, of course. Did I mention that I am having a party on Monday?? A Valentine's party for big girls:) I am excited about it - but, first there is the getting ready for it. And that explains the to-do list.

From the kitchen...taco soup. It is a new recipe from one of those aforementioned cookbooks - so I will wait to share the recipe if it is a keeper:)

Around the house....I am tired of boots and winter weather gear! I so would love to put these things away but I don't think it will be too soon.

Plans for the week.....doctor appointment, hair appointment and hopefully a nail appointment - oh my - I hope I am not becoming high maintenance! There are also two Bible studies and some baking to be done:)

One of my favorite things....dark chocolate!!

Check These Out

2011-02-03T10:20:00.006-05:00

Some days I simply have nothing to blog about. Shocking, if you know me, because rarely do I have nothing to say...but all my rambling does not always translate to blogging too well:)

And some days, I have much I want to post...if only to make mental notes to myself. Today is such a day and I have much I want to remember and get posted but I just can't seem to get my thoughts organized. My brain is just too scattered - something that seems to be happening more and more lately. (You see the irony, right...the blog is supposed to help me organize my brain but I'm too scattered to get the thoughts in a post!)

And, besides, all the cute Valentine posts and ideas, etc. etc.....I really just enjoy reading your blogs. So, for now, I will tell you there is a give away here...and one here....and the cutest Valentine table idea here. And today there was a great "love dare" idea here!!

Maybe tomorrow, I will actually have a post of my own ideas:) and maybe not.

It is a Bit of an Obsession

2011-02-02T09:21:00.006-05:00

PROJECT: 52 PHOTOs - and how appropriate that I work CraigsList into my blog! I will admit I have a bit of a CraigsList habit. Seriously. I love to browse! and, occassionally, I actually buy:) I have yet to sell anything...but, oh, buying is so much more fun!

This week I came across the sweetest crib set for our little grandson on the way!! It was brand new - some of the pieces with the tags still on. It was from Pottery Barn (another favorite) and even included the curtain rod. I'm tellin' you, it was my "treasure find" for the week...maybe, the month.

So - this is not only a sneak preview for baby's mama:)....but also a glimpse into my life this week!!

I LOVE that middle frame - it says "Bonne Nuit"....which I used to say so often to my own little ones at bedtime. At least I learned something from five years of high school French!!

Winter Winter Go Away!

2011-01-31T08:37:00.004-05:00

A Simple Woman's Daybook: the last day of January 2011

Outside my window....it is grey and wintry. Piles of dirty snow line the curbs and small patches of melted snow have refrozen overnight. And more ice and other wintry weather is in the forecast for later today. Oh please. Winter has worn out her welcome around here!!

I am thinking....about spring - and dreaming of sunny days, planting impatiens, dinners on the patio and putting away my heavy coat, scarf and gloves!

I am thankful for....my coat, scarf and gloves!!

I am wearing...a new shirt from the thrift store - yeah. It is striped with sunny yellow, melon, sky blue and several other "warm" happy colors. It makes me smile this morning.

I am remembering....last week's terrible ice storm. So many are still recovering and many are still without power and now a new storm is on the horizon. It is really unbelievable what happens to the traffic in our area when the weather is bad. I am so thankful that Hubbie does not have to commute - or even go out if it is really nasty.

I am going....shopping and to lunch with a friend this morning. HomeGoods is on the agenda. Life is good!!

I am reading....some of the neatest gardening tips in this month's issue of Southern Living - like the cutest way to grow strawberries in pots for your deck or patio! I am just itiching to plant something. (Planting I don't have too much trouble with...it is the whole getting things to grow and survive that I struggle with!)

I am hoping....to have another productive week this week - and to see some good results with the scale on Saturday. GRRR.

On my mind....a pastor who's wife died suddenly this past weekend. Pastor Williams was on his way to our church on Wednesday to be a guest speaker when last week's bad weather hit. He turned around in West Virignia to head back to Indiana. Not only was he home when his wife passed away, he was with her all day the day before as well. God was certainly in control.

From the kitchen....chocolate chip pumpkin cookies. Oh my goodness, they were delicious. (And I wonder why I struggle with the scale on Saturdays!)

Around the house....are paint chips - well, at least, in the bedroom. I am wanting to do some painting but why is picking just the right color such a challenge??

Plans for the week....are always tentative with this crazy weather. (Have I mentioned the weather enough??!) Hopefully, there will be Bible study on Tuesday at my church and a new study starting at a friend's church on Thursday.

One of my favorite things.....Bible studies:) especially with good friends.

A Snow Day

2011-01-27T20:45:00.008-05:00

Yes, we had a snow day yesterday:) I don't have children in school anymore. I don't work at their school any longer but something about a snow day is just plain fun! I love the unexpected change of routine and the chance to stay home and snuggled in - which is especially nice when the family is snuggled in with me.

Although our snow storm didn't leave us with as many inches as some of our snows, the nice sheet of ice under the snow - from the sleet beforehand - really made commutes home for many a nightmare. There were, however, some really encouraging news stories of people helping one another....like the couple serving hot tea to motorists stranded on the roads outside their home!

Thankfully, we all made it home safe and without too terrible of delays. The snow was coming down so thick - it was beautiful. I tried to get some pictures.....but they are from the back door as I was not willing to go outside. I am totally a "from the inside snow admirer"!!

Our snow day was very productive and, also, "one of those days!!" In the afternoon, our daughter loaded the dogs in the car - just for a run to Petsmart to get out of the house - and the car would not go...literally. Not sure what the problem was, but Hubbie was able to fix that one without too much trouble. A bit later, Hubbie wanted to "get out of the house".....it is me who is content to stay inside:)...and wanted to run to Starbucks. I initially balked but he really wanted to go, so we bundled up and headed out. We made it to the garage. Yes, our car wouldn't start. Not even a joke. Apparently, the cold weather killed our battery. Or, at least, I am blaming it on the cold weather. Hubbie fixed that one, too, but we had no lattes.

But that was okay with me. I cleaned. I cooked (or puttered in the kitchen is a better description of me in the kitchen). I read. And I caught up with blogs. That's when I was inspired by Nellie to do some decorating simply with things I already have around the house. I worked for over an hour in our guest room - which we call Tyler's room as furniture and some of his favorite things are in that room - and had the best time. Thanks, Nellie, for the inspiration!! I will have to take some pictures......

But I'm off to the vet - follow-up appointment for Mr. Rascal. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!! Enjoy these days of winter:) One of my favorite things about winter -

Oh yea - the cocoa!!

Anticipation

2011-01-27T11:36:00.002-05:00

There is just something about watching a snowfall that is so intriquing - and fun!! - for, well, everyone!! Last night's snow was not exception. I like watching the snow fall looking while looking at the porch light. Hubbie periodically opens the front door and watches the flakes fall (and inches to be shoveled) pile up through the storm door. And, yes, Bailey has her favorite spot, too!!

This week's photo.....its all about the snow!

Miss Bailey - Jan. 26, 2011

And Now.....More From Our Cruise

2011-01-25T05:30:00.001-05:00

Believe it or not, one of the things I am determined to do...and do this year!...is finish loading the pictures of our cruise. Yes, the cruise that was over four months ago. I posted three days worth and then I just never got back to it. So, without further ado.....I am going to continue with our vacation photos.

No, I won't do all fourteen days at one time (heavy sighs of relief heard all around) but I will NOT take four more months to finish. And I hope that everything will post without being all crammed together like my posts have been lately. I certainly don't type them like that - but they post with a mind of their own.

Moving on - our fourth day was in Zeebrugge, Belgium....right near Brussels. I really believe this was my favorite city on our trip. Not only was it lovely, it just had a wonderful "feel" about it...and we had a wonderful day!! Hubbie and I both agreed we would enjoy coming back to Belgium for vacation:)

We arrived in Zeebrugge and walked around just a bit waiting for the train to arrive.

We took the train to Brussels....

yes, the home of Belgian waffles - served any way you can imagine.....

and Belgian chocolate, of course!! Chocolate was in every store window and was carved, molded or shaped into absolutely anything that you could imagine - and then some!! I was amazed.

The city was absolutely charming - it was quaint, clean, and just lovely.

And, again, the flowers were everywhere!!

We had the perfect day walking through the town,

exploring historical churches,

and even climbed 365 steps inside this one - but why we did that, I just don't know!! The center of the town was this charming square - full of people...both tourists and locals, shops and all kinds of wonderful cafes to stop and have a bite:)

We chose this one - but, goodness, I would have loved to move on to each and every one and have another taste. You just never know when you will have the chance again, right?? But, we did not!

We had such a nice day. And, just for the record...that day was the 14th - our actual anniversary! and the "reason" for the whole trip! I just can't think of more special place - or way - to spend that day with my Hubbie!!

One of my favorite photos from Belgium.....

Mismatched Words and Actions

2011-01-24T08:41:00.003-05:00

It is a COLD Monday morning! and I am off to work...all day! Not my first choice - I really do enjoy "part time" - but, actually, this was someone else's shift who asked me to switch with her. I ended up with the entire weekend off which was nice.

I really do enjoy my job. Even more than I thought I would:) For the most part, the customers are all really nice and I enjoying chatting with them as they shop and check out. Of course, every once in awhile, there is the cranky customer. For instance - last week.

A very well-dressed woman, with the loveliest British accent, came in and asked if we had cards for folks becoming a citizen. Of course we do. (Honestly, we have a card for just about anything....even some things that really don't need a card.) Any hoo, after she found her card, she was hurriedly looking around the store. I asked her if I could help her find something (why did I do that??) and she was looking for a gift for her friends...the new citizens. Something "American" but not touristy junk (her words!) I thought and thought but really could not come up with anything.

And then the complaining started. Although she did eventually find something - very nice and appropriate, I might add - she never stopped complaining. And not just about Hallmark or shopping or something similar - no, about this country!! Its lack of patriotism...and on and on and on!! So, her she was wanting to celebrate her friend's American citizenship and whining non-stop about America.

What was wrong with this picture?? Clearly, her words did not match her actions. And I have thought several times over the last week about this lady. Not only do I hope her friends appreciate..and enjoy... their citizenship - and the true blessing that it is - more than she does, but I also pray that my actions match my words.....and my words match my actions. I would never want my words - like complaining or joining in the "latest news" at work - to be disjointed with my testimony of being a Christian. I pray my co-workers never have reason to wonder, "what's wrong with this picture??"

Just a thought as I head off to work and begin another week. Looking for all God has in store this week:)

GRRRR

2011-01-21T09:31:00.003-05:00

Oh, goodness - here I am ready to post...and Hubbie is calling and ready to go! We are off to buy a kitchen sink:) but, again, no time for posting! This happens to me...too much! I'll be back this evening!

Have a beautiful day, blogging friends!

Evening Shake, Anyone??

2011-01-19T08:58:00.003-05:00

Project: 52 Photos - week two

And this is "my world" this week. Oh yeah - meal replacement shakes. So not the most exciting photo ever but I want this project - at the end of the year - to be a reflection of my life..and rigth now, my life is all about dieting. I started back on my diet on Saturday and that first week, it just seems to consume my thoughts. I know it doesn't stay like this but that does seem to be the case in the beginning.

And there is more to my diet than shakes - oh please. That's just what I was having last night when I got ready to take pictures. I try not to blog much about my diet - really, who cares - but I am trying to learn a lot more during this time and process than simply losing weight. Right now - it is all about discipline....and goodness knows, there is much to learn about that!

PS - and, yes, those are the old (and unattractive) counter tops....soon to be gone:)

Cocooned in Ice Today

2011-01-18T10:11:00.004-05:00

A Simple Woman's Daybook for January 18, 2011 - my first for this new year:)

Outside my window....is an icy wonderland. We had sleet, freezing rain and who knows what else last night and today everything is coated in simmery ice. Now it is no secret that I am overly cautious - actually terrified - of ice (having fallen twice in years past) but with nowhere to go....I am enjoying a warm day at home with my Hubbie!

I am thinking....about the comments you left yesterday - and some of the really weird (read that..yucky) things you guys have eaten! And it all tastes just like chicken!!

I am thankful for....my gas fireplace, cozy winter sweaters, snoozies (my favorite slippers), and my newest Yankee candle - "Gingerbread" - that is filling the house with the nicest aroma!

I am wearing....the above-mentioned cozy sweater and my snoozies - if you don't have a pair of these slippers, you really should find some....really.

I am remembering....so many little details from last year. I transferred my important dates from last year's daytimer to this year's new one (I know, a little late but....) and was noticing all the days and events I noted last year. Several precious friends moving, lots of fun days away with Hubbie and days out with girlfriends, and all the special days I looked so forward to that are now come and gone. Goodness, life goes so quickly.

I am going....absolutely nowhere. That whole ice thing. But it is great to be able to stay home!

I am reading...Made to Crave by Lysa Terkurst - more about that later.

I am hoping....that warm weather will return early this year. This winter has been beyond bitter and I really am too old for all this cold. Last night at work, I put out an entire display of flip-flops?!? Positive thinking, I guess.

On my mind....my sweet friend, Judy, who has a birthday tomorrow! We have been best of friends since fourth grade - yeah, a long time! - and she is a jewel. I hope she has a beautiful day!!

From the kitchen...something with ground chicken since that is what I took out of the freezer this morning. What that something will be - not sure but I'll figure out before dinner time:)

Around the house....it smells yummy - like gingerbread. And the baseboards are clean - thanks Hubbie! and we are just beginning the newest house "project"...new kitchen counters! HOORAY

Plans for the week....Ladies Day Out is this week - breakfast and then thrift store shopping. Have I mentioned how much I enjoy the thrill of the hunt...for just the perfect treasure...at thrift store and consignment shops??!! :) Can't wait.

One of my favorite things.....well, let's see - Yankee candles, snoozies:), birthdays, mornings out with a group of friends, and thrift stores!!

Would You Eat THAT??

2011-01-17T11:17:00.004-05:00

Happy Monday morning:) Hubbie is off work today and we are enjoying a slower-than-normal Monday morning. He has actually been cleaning baseboards...and I'm thinkin' he needs to stay home more often! Just kidding but I do enjoy clean baseboards:)

I was thinking back over the weekend and the annual Wild Game Supper that was held at church on Saturday. This event is really planned for the men; however, each year more and more women attend. The day includes a lot of hunting, fishing or other outdoor-nature stuff that is totally foreign to me but is truly an evangelistic opportunity where the gospel is shared. There is a huge outreach into the community and such - and apparently alot more women than I ever imagined are really "into" that type of thing....but not this girl! Uh, no. I just hear the details after the fact.

And hear I did. Apparently the new taste sensation this year was bobcat (every year is something more and more unique)! Bobcat...really?? From all the comments I heard, it was not that tasty. Shocking, I know. So, my question today is Why would anyone eat bobcat? I honestly believe it is the peer pressure. Not saying that to be rude or make any commentary toward the men but, truthfully, we all face it. Teenager. Ladies. Even men. The pressure is there to "fit in" and be like the group.

Maybe I'm reading too much into in - but, really, why else would you eat bobcat? or hippo? or any of a dozen types of roadkill?? Yuck. And, my second question....what is the most unusual - if not grossiest - thing you have ever eaten? I guess I would have to go with calamari. Oh, and don't even get me started on some of the things that people will eat from the ocean!!

I'll end with just a funny side story. When I was in Panama City with Jordan, he took me to dinner at one of his and his buddies' favorite eating spots - a chinese buffet. I'm not typically a buffet fan but the food was really tasty and the selection was huge! They had a bit of everything - including fried frog legs. I hate to say yuck too many times but they did not look appetizing at all. I told Jo I'd give him 20 bucks to eat some. And he did. Oh, if I could have only captured the look on his face on film....but I was busy quieting my own stomach.

No peer pressure there - just the allure of an extra 20 bucks. Cold hard cash. What a silly boy!!

Name Them One by One

2011-01-13T10:26:00.002-05:00

THANKFUL THURSDAY.....and, goodness, it seems like quite a bit since I have posted a Thankful Thursday - not that I haven't been thankful, mind you:) My heart fills full and overflowing these days and, yet, Satan seems to be working overtime to drain that joy...especially with his tools of worry and anxiety. I don't often think of myself as a "worry-wart" (who wants to be any kind of a wart??!) but lately it seems the same burdens play over and over through my thoughts and even my dreams!

And I know, as a child of God, not only do I not have to carry these burdens...I am not supposed to bear them! Today, I am remembering this verse:

Psalm 55:22 "Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved."

and I am concentrating on my blessings instead!! Blessings, like:

1 - the unanticipated road trip with Jordan last week....not only did we laugh and joke and solve all the world's problems but I was able to share my heart with my son - quite a bit - and he did some of the same. What a thrill for a mom!

2 - a new grandbaby on the way:) and for his mommy - who has a birthday today!! Happy Birthday, Erica. What a blessing you are to me and to your dad. We love you.

3 - ministries I am priviledged to with in at church....to think that God would use me is amazing.

4 - a Hubbie who still thinks I'm sexy. Really now. I know the ugly truth but it stills makes my heart happy when he says it.

5 - gas heat:) and this warm house....'cause it has been bitter cold! I might also mention that how happy I am that God did not call me to be a farmer because I would most surely die if I had to get up and out to a barn before the sun even came up on this frozen mornings!!

6 - debt-free Januarys! These were not always the case for us but we now live debt-free (except for a mortgage) and it is one of our greatest blessings.

7 - Bible -study this week. Studied "longsuffering" which is not always an easy topic but I really needed that study and God is using the lesson even now in my life.

8 - Starbucks coffee break with a girlfriend that I've been missing. You know, Starbucks really doesn't do that much for me these days - why??? - but I do love the time with my girlfriends.

9 - my family, my health, my church, my faith, my friends.....oh goodnes, my life. It is a beautiful life.

Happy Thursday, friends. Count your blessings today:)

Something New

2011-01-12T08:07:00.007-05:00

New for 2011.....I am trying a new "project" - just for fun and just for myself. I have seen some blogs that were strictly photo journals and even a few that had one photo a day for the entire year. Now that is a bit ambitious for me...but, maybe one a week, I could manage. Just a snapshot of where I am and what is happening in my world - week by week. And so, I begin "Project: 52 Photos"!!

The somewhat sad part is I am already behind one week - surely that it is not indictive of the year ahead. But I will begin with two photos and, goodness, what a difference one week can make!

Last week:

This week:

So, our snow "storm" last night really did not amount to much but it was enough to make me miss the beach even more!!

My Road Trip with the Airman

2011-01-11T21:45:00.015-05:00

A look back at my road trip with Jordan - through pictures. Granted we look travel weary...if not a bit goofy..in most of the pictures but I had such a good time, I want these pictures posted so I can remember such a special time. So, please indulge me.

All thumbs up and ready to hit the road......
We took turns with the driving - alternating as we entered each new state. Goodness, am I glad we were travelling last week...missing all the severe weather down south! Our weather was great and smooth sailing:)

Yes, Jo - it is YOUR car:) Cool!

This photo is for Dad - yes, he brushed his teeth:) About ten minutes after leaving, Hubbie calls with the inevitable list of things we forgot which always seems to include the toothbrush! This seems to be a given for our family (well, I remembered mine!) but thankfully, the hotel had complimentary ones. Guess we aren't the only ones.

After several hundred miles and four states later......we cruised into Florida:)

We stopped at all the welcome centers - we always do! - but it is especially a must in Florida because they give you welcome orange juice. (This is something my dad instilled in me many, many years ago. And I have enjoyed many gratis cups of Florida OJ.)

Right outside of Panama City, we followed this car for several miles. Does anything seem wrong with this picture??? Perhaps we were a bit slap happy from road weariness...but I just thought this car was too funny (so much so, I snapped a photo!)

But, we finally made it!! Hooray:) (excuse the pedestrian crossing sign.....)

Now, THIS is my idea of a nice January evening. Yes, indeed.

Ok, I'll confess - it was a bit nippy down by the beach...well, cold. And I did not have a coat but I had to be a good tourist and run down to the beach...snap pictures...and RAN back to the car. The place was deserted but the sunset was really pretty.

And just one more picture of my road trip buddy. You are goofy...and fun:) and you don't snore - I will road trip with you anytime, Bud!! I do love me an airman!!

Jan. 2011 trip to Panama City

Home Again.....Home Again

2011-01-10T11:31:00.008-05:00

Hello...hello! 2011 certainly took off with a bang - and left little time or opportunity for blogging but, ah:) for Monday mornings and settling back into the routine.

It has been awhile since I posted but life has been full of blessings - not the least of which, Jordan (my airman:), was home for three weeks!! There was none of that sense of urgency to do everything or get so much done before he has to leave again...but, instead just leisurely mornings, good days and plenty of fun times together.

Jordan was also able to catch up with several friends and went to a reunion party with his "dojo family" where he trained karate for many years. The dojo has since closed and it has been quite awhile since he had seen all those friends, as well as his sensei, and he really enjoyed the party.

While he was home, he spent a lot of time doing this............................

as well as doing this.................................

but, even more exciting, he bought (er, leased) his first car! That was fun for all of us. He now drives a super sporty little Mazda....and looks totally fly doing so, if I do say so myself! Of course, he had to get it back to Panama City (about 16 hours from here) and I really did not like the idea of him making that trip alone - remember, although he is 19, he is a new drive - so what is a mom to do?? Go with him!!

I am not much of car traveler myself but four full days with my boy - all to myself! - and count me in!! So, that explains where I was all last week. We took two days to get there and then had another two and half days together in Florida before I flew home. It was wonderful!! Such an unexpected blessing and what a great way to start my new year.

I do have some pictures to share from the trip. Jordan is such a good sport....posing "for the blog" - ha, I have him trained well:) But, I seem to be a bit behind with posting. Actually, I seem to be a bit behind with EVERYTHING (but thats ok). I never posted pictures of my Christmas tree and I want to have those...just for my own memory and reference. So, indulge me just a bit:)

Our Christmas tree has been burgundy and gold for a long time now. We are all ready for a change, so just to get us started this year, we added some silver. I really like the silver. And then we did a little after Christmas shopping and started on a whole new look for next year. I'm looking forward to the change but we have a whole lot of gold to get rid of???

Also, new this year was putting the tree in the dining room. Yep, the dining room. But it fit perfectly and we loved it there. You just never know, right??!

And this is what we have always affectionately called our Tyler Tree:) It is decorated with popcorn, cookie cutters and other kitchen/cooking things - Tyler's passion!

In the past, we have always had this tree...well, in the kitchen. In the new home, this is absolutely no place to put it in the kitchen so it was in the foyer. Was not sure I would like it there but it was the first thing everyone saw when they came in the house and when they commented on it, I talked about Tyler - something I love to do!! He would definitley like this tree. My children always wanted their own trees - small ones in their rooms - when they were younger but it did not happen. I know Tyler would be pleased to have his own themed tree:)

And, so, a look back at our Christmas trees. Tomorrow - moving forward and catching up to the second week of January - already!! And there is snow in the forecast!! Hope your week is off to a good start:)

Christmas 2010

Hello 2011

2011-01-01T09:30:00.002-05:00

Have a wonderful start to your new year, sweet blogging friends!! Looking forward to keeping in touch, "sharing life" through all your interesting posts, meeting new friends and perhaps even connecting with some I've only known through the internet (now, that would be fun!) I know God has much in store for all of us - life is, indeed, good!! Hugs, friends!

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

2010-12-27T10:42:00.004-05:00

Merry Monday after Christmas morning!! I hope that everyone had a wonderful holiday. We had a great day - I think this may have been our nicest Christmas since Tyler died. Nothing dramatic or miraculous but such a nice day with my family here....that we shared with friends....that included good food:), plenty of laughs and simple joy. I really am beginning to believe that being sick and not feeling well for the most of December may have even been a blessing in disguise. I was forced to simply "let it go"....many times over! This is something that does not come easy for me - but I had no choice. I was able to focus on what was truly important to me - and to my family.

Yes, God blessed our day together. I pray that yours was as well. I would love to hear about your day - and to know what your holiday menu consisted of. I use this blog for reference and next year...when my mind is a total blank...I would love some great ideas to look back to for inspiration. I had the hardest time coming up with ideas this year. I wanted a simple menu that could be set out buffet style and would "hold up" for awhile so guests could graze throughout the day. I ended up putting together a buffet around BBQ sliders (which were delicious!) and a Pampered Chef sandwhich ring stand-by recipe that was a huge hit. Both were yummy but nothing special. So, always looking for good ideas.

And, don't forget to let me know what your special gift was this year:) I was spoiled - again - but I really love my Willow Tree nativity. I have wanted one for quite awhile and I love it! Its a shame really that it is almost time to put away the Christmas decorations. In fact, I just might leave this out for a bit.

Looking forward to visiting your blogs - and hearing about your Christmas.

Not Another Whiney Post - Finally

2010-12-20T15:23:00.003-05:00

MONDAY.....yeah, always a favorite!! And this one is especially nice:) Jordan is here!! That boy (yes, he is a man but always my boy!) just makes my heart happy! We spent the morning finishing my shopping. Done. Woo Hoo. We also have a tree now. All the presents that had to be mailed are gone - and some have even arrived already! Love it. We have a refrigerator full of food and even clean bathrooms. I would say things are shaping up rather nicely.

I continue to have side effects from the flu or virus or medicine or WHATEVER!! I have another appointment this week and hopefully can get some relief. But Chirstmas is almost here and we are ready!! I hope this week is a wonderful time of the year for all of you as well. And thanks so much for all the congratulations on our grandson:) Our daughter is thinking of including "Tyler" in his name - how precious is that!!

And a Bit More News....

2010-12-17T12:45:00.010-05:00

Yes, I did say there was more big news and I do apologize for not getting a post done sooner. (I am still having a lot of side effects from being sick, the medicine, or SOMETHING...and typing is so difficult.) But, I couldn't wait any longer.....

A few of you noticed on my list of blessings that we are expecting our second grandchild!! That's right....this sweet princess is going to be a big sister:)

And - found out this week - its a baby brother!! How exciting:) Sure hope I can start posting regularly again soon...I'm sure there are lots of fun times ahead as we get ready for a boy!!

Have a wonderful weekend!

The Latest News

2010-12-14T14:13:00.006-05:00

My, sweet blog friends truly do know how to make a girl feel better!! I so appreciate everyone's kind words - and the great suggestions for working out the next couple weeks before Christmas. You truly did have some great ideas:)

I'm off to work this afternoon - and spent most of the morning wrapping and boxing those gifts that have to be mailed...as well as another surprise that I can't share yet (wouldn't want to spoil the fun if a certain someone read this post!) But did want to share one "little" thing....

JORDAN IS COMING HOME FOR CHRISTMAS!!

That's right - my sweet airman is headed home and we will pick him up at the airport on Saturday! I think it will be a perfect Christmas - no matter what gets done or not done!! Oh my, I am excited.

Sure hope to get around to everyone's blogs tonight when I get home. I want to see what you have all been up to lately. Blog friends are some of the best! Oh, and one more thing - more "NEWS" tomorrow!!

How Do You Know??

2010-12-13T15:42:00.003-05:00

So, just how do you know? Know, without a doubt, you have the flu. (This one I have authority to answer....) You have the flu if you have one, two or ALL of the following symptoms. And if you have them for more than five days, you have it bad.

**body-wrecking chills followed by drenching sweats - this pattern repeats itselfs every hour or so
**muscle aches so severe that lifting your head to rollover in bed is literally painful
**utter weakness and inability to wake up for days at a time
**feeling of complete misery

How do you know that your life really stinks?? When you are able to drag out of bed in order to beg your doctor for relief and she actually prescribes a flu medicine - to which you have a severe allergic reaction! Really now. The symptoms for the reaction are almost as pitiful as the above listed symptoms.

How do you know when you are really so far behind it might be impossible to catch up at this point? Lets see.
**you might not even have a tree up yet
**you have not baked a crumb, addressed one card, or yet wrapped one gift
**oh please, I cannot make myself go on!

How do you know what to let go?? and what has to happen in order for Christmas to feel right? Now, that really is the question. When I have that figured out, I will be sure to let you know. But it is certain that something will have to give. Because, oh yes, I have one more question.

How do you know that you just aren't as young as you used to be (there are several answers here) but this week - it is taking so incredibly long to "bounce back" from being ill, I'm beginning to forget what "normal" even feels like and I know FOR SURE this old gray mare ain't what she used to be!!

An "Out of the Box" Thanksgiving

2010-11-29T09:48:00.009-05:00

Happy Monday morning - and the beginning of that five week "fast" until Christmas! Well, maybe not. But I do hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving and gained, at least, a pound to show for all the effort that went into those meals!

We did something totally different this year - and it worked! I had struggled and struggled with trying to create new traditions...or, at least, trying to do things a bit differently. Without Tyler here - and Jordan not even being able to come home - things are NOT the same and we needed a change. But I had a hard time giving myself permission to "not follow the rules." We didn't even have turkey, folks! But, I must admit, it was a great day.

Reflecting back, we all agreed it was a really good Thanksgiving. Hubbie does not like turkey. Never has. (That's a bummer because I love turkey and we could have it a lot more than once a year....) My daughter is a vegetarian and so, you can begin to see how the traditional turkey feast really was not what everyone was wanting.

But we do love breakfast. And breakfast carbs:) So we started our day with brunch...and homemade belgian waffles!

Not just any belgian waffles I have to say.....these were topped with vanilla bean Hagen Daas ice cream, hot apples, just a drip of syrup and whipped cream! If you're thinking ice cream on waffles (like I did at first), then you haven't tried it! It was devine. Thanks to Kristine for the suggestion - AND for the waffle iron. (so have to get one of those!)

With our bellies full....we all sorta felt like this!! (and, yes, her head is burning hot but she is in bliss - what a goof!!)

Once we all aroused from carb-induced stupor, we headed to the mountains for hiking. All week long, those nay-sayer weathermen had threatened showers for Thanksgiving, but they were wrong. It was a perfect day for hiking. We used to hike alot when the kids were small but it has been awhile and, truly, we all had forgotten how much we enjoyed it.

Don't get me wrong....we are not hard-core climbers by any means. Much more wanderers in the woods - but we love it. And so do the pups - even the little one:)

Obviously, posing with the little guy is alot easier than trying to coax the big one to "Come here. Sit. Stay. Smile."

The views and landscapes were beautiful. Probably can't appreciate that with my photos but take my word for it.

You could see for miles down into the valley.......................

Yes, the pups are little spoiled!

The best part was simply being together. I love you guys.

My Wishes to You....

2010-11-22T08:20:00.005-05:00

Dear sweet friends..and those few random family members who read, too....:)

I hope each of you have a beautiful week with your own families and friends. These holidays are as unique and individual as each of us but, however, you spend your Thanksgiving, I pray that it is a blessing to you. As well, I pray that we will each make the time to truly reflect on all God's goodness to us - and to purposefully thank Him.

I pray that those who will have very special loved ones missing around the dinner table this Thursday that your heart will be encouraged and that God will give you extra grace. Those empty seats can be painful...but God's grace is sufficient even on these days.

And for those serving our country and protecting our freedoms, I pray each of you know that we at home are grateful - and we thank you - and hope that your Thanksgiving will be blessed as well.

Bloggy friends - take lots of great pictures! - and I will look forward to hearing all about your Thanksgiving fun, blessings and blunders:) next week! Each one of you are a special blessing to me.

Happy Thanksgiving!!

Thanksgiving Pasts

2010-11-19T10:28:00.004-05:00

Friday's Favorite Five.....

and, this week, five of my favorite Thanksgiving memories -

1 - Road trips to Aunt Daisy and Uncle Rob's house each year as a little girl. They lived in Charlotte, just like all of my mom's family did, and each Thanksgiving we would pack up and head south. The cookin' was a southern as their accents....and I loved 'em both! Aunt Daisy's house was not very big but we could pack it full of family. The best part was having a "kids' table" which was in a totally separate room from the adults. We were cool for sure. And, usually, Uncle Rob sat with the kids because he was totally cool.

2 - Aunt Wilma's Feather Biscuits. Truly, there are no descriptive words adequte enough.

3 - Thanksgiving 1989. One of the very rare Thanksgivings that we did not spend with my parents. It was just Hubbie, me and sweet little Em (she was just one). We had planned to visit some seniors in the nursing home...just walking around, visiting. What we didn't plan on was SNOW that year. For Thanksgiving! We bundled Miss Em in her little pink snowsuit and headed out. She was adorable and the hit of the day at the nursing home. And the snow was perfect.

4 - Lunch at the Marriott. For several years, before Tyler died, we always went out to dinner for Thanksgiving. We went to the Marriott and it was grand. We always had a group and everyone would dress in their holiday finery and the whole experience was wonderful. The grand piano in the atrium. The enormous and seemingly endless buffett of fantastic food. The hours gathered around the table with family and friends. Even the obligatory family photo...complimentary in the lobby.

5. I tried to find a couple of those family photos - but no luck on short notice. Then, I was hunting for the adorable ones of Emily in that pink snow suit. Of course, no luck. However, I did come across this (rare) family shot of my parents, my brother and me. There really are not too many of these type shots - taken once we were adults. So, although it has nothing to do with Thanksgiving....it is my fifth favorite five.

This was taken October 1989 (a month before the snowy Thanksgiving) and again in Charlotte:) I am pregnant with my Jordan. And my brother, mom and dad look perfect. I want this snapshot "stuck" in my memory!

God, Mold Me

2010-11-18T09:09:00.002-05:00

Its Thankful Thursday! Not a usual thankful post for me as I am keeping a running list on my sidebar this month. I know several who are keeping up with this "challenge" for the month of November....aren't you enjoying it? It really is good to purposefully list out our blessings each day. I'll admit some days the devil really wants me to think I'm having a "no blessing today" type of day - but he is wrong! God is always good.

Now I'm just wondering if it would too silly to list "peppermint chocolate chip milkshakes" as a blessing:) Seems several of you have already discovered this yumminess. If you haven't...what are you waiting for??

I did have a thought today. Recently I viewed a video from Florence Littauer - quite the humorous lady! - about her "silver boxes" or encouraging words. I have actually read the book and when the video began, I was somewhat disappointed thinking that I had already heard this. Oh my...there was so much more. She shared much of "her story" and some of the paths and journeys that God has taken her through - especially as a mother. I won't give it away here (but it is well worth reading) but there have, indeed, been some very difficult trials and valleys for this lady. I do not remember any of this from reading the book - but, my, what a new perspective and respect you have for a speaker after you hear their story.

And I have begun to notice something. Speaker, writers and other "well-known" Christians that I enjoy and admire - and I think are really leaving an impact and influence on others - all seem to have some very difficult days and years in their testimonies. Do I think that you have to have suffered deeply or endured tragedy in order to be used by God? No. But I am coming to believe that very often it is in those deep valleys that God can most effectively mold us and grow us into more - even the most - effective servants for Him.

Looking back over the most difficult times in my life...and in preparation for those times that may lie ahead, perhaps I need to be asking "why me?" or "why this?" alot less and crying out, "God, use even this" much more.

Lucky Me

2010-11-17T17:55:00.002-05:00

So, what is the only thing better than going to lunch at Chick-Fil-A with your sweetie??

Going to Chick-Fil-A with your sweetie...and they are giving out samples of their holiday Peppermint Chocolate Chip milkshakes!! And I'm talkin' a junior size cup as a sample!!

It was devine. Lunch with Hubbie - AND the milkshake!!:)

Stand Firm

2010-11-16T08:49:00.003-05:00

Tuesday morning and that means Bible study! Always a great way to start the week..or, at least, keep Monday's momentum going:) Just wanted to share a quote I read a few days ago that has been with me ever since. It is from Charles Stanley's In Touch magazine - a monthly devotional that has been a tremedous blessing to me.

With regard to the daily spiritual battle that each of us who claim to be Christians is involved in, Dr. Stanley writes, "Victory demands more than floating through each day." Oh my. Each morning I must purpose to fight my flesh and stand firm against the devil and all that he hopes to use in order to defeat me. And then throughout the day, I have to walk close with my savior in order to be victorious.

Every day is a new day. And a new battle. But God's mercies are new every morning as well and victory can be mine. Stay in the fight, my friends.

Planning for the Ladies' Trip

2010-11-15T09:04:00.003-05:00

Outside my window...yet another beautiful day!! Really this fall has been gorgeous. I think I am getting lulled into thinking this could actually last. Yeah right. I sure would be thrilled if the nasty weather could hold off for at least another three weeks - the first weekend in December is our annual Ladies Day Out Christmas Shopping Trip. Last year, we returned home to our cars covered in inches of snow - picturesque maybe but not alot of fun while cleaning off parking spots and de-icing cars in order to get home. I'm praying for nice weather this year:)

I am thinking...about the final preparations that need to be made for the day trip. I really enjoy this part of the planning - just so I don't overlook anything!

I am thankful for....a fun day with a girlfriend on Friday. We went to check out restaurants for the shopping trip. Oh, the sacrifices I make:)

I am wearing....RED! I am enthusiastic about that because it is not black and white. I have to wear any combination of black and white to work and lately I'm feeling that is all I wear. Even all those white shirts are beginning to get old:) Gasp.

I am remembering...some silly memories of Tyler. Sometimes I don't know where these memories come from - but we were out to dinner the other night. Nothing fancy or super special. We were at TGIFs and Hubbie and I both remembered (almost at the same time) how much Ty used to love the ribs there. That boy just loved ribs (which, by the way, he totally did NOT get from his mother...gross!). Then we (enjoyed) remembering a vacation to Charleston and Tyler wanting to order a full rack of ribs. We tried to talk him out of it - he was just a skinny little guy...but, apparently, with a hollow leg. He ordered them and ate the entire plate. Again - gross. But he LOVED it!! Not only the ribs but the fact that he could eat with the big dogs:) Its a guy thing, I guess.

I am going...to Costco - woo hoo. I don't have a membership to any of the warehouse stores. I did at one time but emptying out the nest totally changes your need to buy in bulk. Today I am shopping for the ladies' trip. Totally fun.

I am reading....gift lists and ideas. Its that time.

I am hoping....to put a serious dent in my Christmas shopping this week.

On my mind...several senior ladies at church who are seriously ill and/or hurting. They need much prayer - and comforting from the Holy Spirit. One had a fall and has several broken bones. Another has a serious mass in her abdomen that cannot be treated. She is 95 and quite ready to move on to Heaven but she is in a lot of pain and, of course, her family is hurting.

From the kitchen...nothing exciting. Poor Hubbie.

Around the house....I put out some Thanksgiving things. They look cute - all the little pilgrims:)

Plans for the week....Christmas shopping, I suppose, if I want to make that dent in my list!

One of my favorite things....a Hoops and YoYo card that I bought a friend for Thanksgiving. She is a huge Hoops and YoYo fan. I, on the other hand, can only take small doses but this card is a HOOT! One line..."we're so thankful that....we're all getting fat!" (Ok, so its funnier if you hear them singing it!) :)

To Sweeten Your Weekend

2010-11-12T09:29:00.003-05:00

I hope everyone had a great Veteran's Day.....maybe enjoyed some time with hubbies or others that might have been off from school or work:) I actually worked but Hubbie was off and was able to not only get the van serviced (boring and glad I didn't have to do that chore!) but also to spend some time with a friend - something he rarely can do. So, it was all good:)

I did do a little baking when I got home last night...and, I have to admit the pan is already half empty this morning (and no it was not all me!!) These bars are a keeper - and they are made with Splenda...woo hoo!! Make some this weekend - and have a sweet one!!

Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Bars (see they even sound yummy!)

1 3/4 cups flour
1/4 chup Splenda brown sugar blend
1/2 cup Splenda sugar blend, divided
1 cup old-fashioned oats
3/4 cup light margarine (totally used butter)
8 ounce block fat free cream cheese
3 eggs
15 ounce can pumpkin
1 tablespoon pumpkin pie spice
1 cup chocolate chips

1. Preheat oven to 350. Line 13X9 pan with foil and spray with PAM.
2. Combine flour, brown sugar, half of the white sugar blend, and oats. (Can also include 1/2 cup chopped walnuts or pecans here but I did not have any and it was fine either way.) Cut in butter with a fork until mixture is crumbly.
3. Press all but one cup of crust mixture into prepared pan.
4. Bake 15 minutes. Allow to cool.
5. Beat cream cheese, eggs, remaining white sugar blend, pumpkin and spice until well blended.
6. Pour cream cheese/pumpkin mixture over the pre-baked crust and sprinkle with the remaining one cup of crust mixture and the chocolate chips.
7. Bake for 25 minutes or until set. Cool and lift from pan with foil to cut into bars.

I enjoyed mine with a nice serving of whipped cream. Naturally:)

Thank You to the American Soldier

2010-11-11T07:34:00.000-05:00

The Boys

2010-11-10T08:21:00.003-05:00

(Almost) Wordless Wednesday. I'm going with "almost" because I can never seem to share a picture without saying at least something! Ha. Anyway, this is a recent photo of my nephews...who not only are getting way too big but also recently moved to California. One of the cool things about moving is taking weekend trips to really cool places.

Like San Francisco!!

Apparently when you turn eight, it is no longer cool to smile when being photographed. Just ask a ten year old, and you will get the scoop. :)

Enough Already

2010-11-09T08:02:00.003-05:00

Tuesday, again. And off to Bible study which is always a great way to start the week....ok, one day short but you get the idea. Its been a whole week since election day. I was thinking about last week's elections.....and, then, how the craziness has already started. Newly elected representatives all declaring they know exactly what "the people" want; but the only ideas I ever really hear these polictians support are very vague thoughts that are basically "anything opposite of what he supports"!

Around our town, there has often been a favorite saying among our avid football fans. "I cheer for the Redskins and any team playing Dallas!" I don't really know why we cling to this tradition of rivalry with the Cowboys and I don't suppose any of those die-hard fans do either but it is what it is. And that type of cheering is fun - and funny! - with football, but the leaders of our country have to have more of an agenda than simply "against whatever the other party stands for." The constant finger pointing, name calling and incessant effort to only undue what has been done (without a solution to replace it) is not fun, funny or even effective.

And that is my soapbox for today:) Let's be diligent to pray for our leaders...the newly elected ones and all the others in office as well. One side note - one candidate here locally that I was so hoping to see get elected...lost. By five hundred votes. Hundreds of thousands of votes and he loses by five hundred. That is like training for months to run the Marine Corps Marathon, running your heart out...and losing by 22 seconds. Ugh. That hurts.

Heavenly Sunlight

2010-11-08T07:54:00.003-05:00

My Simple Woman's Daybook: November 8, 2010

Outside my window...it is sunny, and clear and cool. It is supposed to warm up nicely today - the makings of a perfect fall day.

I am thinking....how much I enjoy all the windows in this new house. Our previous house was an "inside unit" townhouse and although we never thought it seemed dark or lacking in sunlight - little did we know how glorious morning sunlight pouring in from all sides really was!! Just one more reason to LOVE the morning!

I am thankful for....the sweet friends I have made while blogging. I was so touched by sweet comments, and even email, from many friends last week when I was MIA:) and unable to find time to blog. Most of you I have never met in person, and probably never will..at least not this side of eternity:)....but you are friends, nonetheless - encouragers along the way!! I am blessed to have "met" all of you.

I am wearing...my snugging robe....it feels so good in the mornings (especially these cool ones)!

I am remembering....Thanksgivings from years past. So many great memories....both as a little girl and then the years when my own children were the little ones! How quickly time goes by. I pray that Erica is finding wonderful ways to begin traditions with Miss Riley.

I am going...to get my haircut tomorrow - and not a minute too soon! And hopefully Mr. Rascal will get one as well (just not at the same salon)!!

I am reading....Life:Beautiful magazine. I really do enjoy this magazine.

I am hoping....to create new traditions for the upcoming holidays. Not as easy as it seems it should be - any hints???

On my mind....several very serious, and rather urgent, prayer requests. My heart is so heavy - but I am remembering what a "big" God we serve.

From the kitchen....we have made banana bread and pumpkin spice cookies lately and will be making pumkin bread today. And I wonder what's up with my diet??

Around the house....dust. Again. And we are tackling the windows this week - let that sunshine really shine in!! And then I might break into song..."Heavenly Sunlight..Heavenly Sunlight. Flooding my soul with glory divine." (pretend I didn't just squeak out that high note there!)

Plans for the week....could it actually be a quiet week?? That would be nice:) Maybe - just maybe! - I can get some more of the cruise pictures posted!

One of my favorite things....phone calls with Jordan!

Thanks for Checking on Me.....

2010-11-05T20:44:00.003-04:00

Better late than never..I guess. It has been almost an entire week since I last posted and I thought I'd simply wait until next week for a new post - but, I just can't help myself. I miss my blogging friends and I miss "keeping updated"! A bit back, I started a part-time job...just a few hours a week and just to keep me busy. It has been awhile since I have been working and I must say the paychecks are fun:) They support my HomeGoods habit...but those few hours a week have really thrown me for a loop as far as getting into a new routine - and my time on the computer as really taken a back seat. I am still working on the details of a new routine - I THRIVE on schedule - but I totally indeed to be blogging regularly. I have enjoyed visiting my friends this evening and catching up:)

I noticed a couple friends have running lists of blessings building on their sidebars for the month of November.....and I had planned to do something similar. I know I'm behind but I think I will catch up and join in. So much to be grateful for...and the perfect month to purpose our hearts to do so. (Now, let's see if I can get it added to the sidebar....)

Happy first week of November, friends. Hope your "thankful month" is off to a beautiful beginning:)

Election Day is Tuesday

2010-10-28T09:12:00.003-04:00

A bit of a different type of Thankful Thursday for me but I really had to "say" something and, I suppose, incorporating my thoughts...and opinions...in a thankful post is the nicest way to do it:) I am thankful to be an American and for America. I am thankful for its heritage and rich history of a country founded on Christian principles. I am so thankful for the freedoms that being an American allows me.

I must admit photos like this one..........

not only anger me, but they also sadden me. But I also want them to remind me of several things. One: there is a real need to pray for our country and its leaders. We simply cannot assume that our country will always be the great country that it has been or that our freedoms cannot be stripped away from us. We also need to pray for those defending our country and its freedoms every day. For a real "commentary" on this photo...check out this cartoon at this blog. Two: it is not only a priviledge but a tremendous responsiblity to vote - and to vote in all elections...not just "the big ones." And we need to vote informed. Know the issues and know the candidates and don't simply be carried by public opinion, tv ads or the biggest signs on the side of the highway. Three: God gives specific promises to those who will humble themselves and pray for their country. Amen.

I Hate My Big Feet:)

2010-10-27T09:15:00.003-04:00

Let's face it....when it comes to first impressions - they really do count and....we all form them. I don't really think that is necessarily being judgmental. When we simply assume our first impression is all there is and we are unwilling to look beyond - or to have our first impressions altered - that is more of a problem. But, we really do need to be careful with first impressions - not only the ones we form, but also the ones we are making ourselves.

I liked the comments yesterday - so many of you noticing others' smiles...and teeth!...and their hair. And I am right there with you. I notice them both and cute hair (at least, well kept hair) and a pretty smile do say volumes!! But, in response to the survey I heard yesterday - forty percent of women said they made first impressions based on someone's.....SHOES!

HA - and funny, because I have to admit I would be guilty of this, too! Shoes are those "extra details" that really do make a difference! Not only do the condition of your shoes say alot but, I think, the style of shoe you are wearing suggests a whole lot about you, too - well, especially girls. Stilettos....steel-toe boots, track shoes, Mary Janes, etc. They, often, give a very accurate hint as to someone's personality before they have ever even told you their name.

And having said that - please don't judge me by my shoes because my shoe wardrobe is pathetic and really rather hideous. I acknowledge this and I am trying to "revamp...revitalize...and replace" the whole collection...but shopping for shoes when your feet are as big (and wide) as mine is not easy. It is a painful, painful chore. But I'm working on it and if those forty percent of women out there judging me by my shoes will just be patient with me.......I would be ever so grateful.